Many (most) young guys think they may be gay.
They prefer the company of other guys, and they can see how guys are cute (note: I'm not gay)
But this adolescent feeling is not a sexual orientation, it is a bond that guys share, like when guys want to go fishing together no women allowed. But since young boys don't fully understand this they 'think' they may be gay. They are not. And reading your passage I truly feel you fall into this category.
Its true that some young guys grow up to be adults and believe and feel they are gay. This ONLY happens after they have passed through the confusion of the adolescent days, ie We are not born gay, nor are kids born to love the opposite sex. This just grows on us over time.
Words like 'sweet' and 'obsess over girls' and 'I don't feel the same chemistry as I do with girls. I'm only outwardly attracted to guys'
Really shows me that you are not gay, but just in that initial bonding age of your mates.
IIN to be physically/sexually attracted to guys but not emotionally
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Many (most) young guys think they may be gay.
They prefer the company of other guys, and they can see how guys are cute (note: I'm not gay)
But this adolescent feeling is not a sexual orientation, it is a bond that guys share, like when guys want to go fishing together no women allowed. But since young boys don't fully understand this they 'think' they may be gay. They are not. And reading your passage I truly feel you fall into this category.
Its true that some young guys grow up to be adults and believe and feel they are gay. This ONLY happens after they have passed through the confusion of the adolescent days, ie We are not born gay, nor are kids born to love the opposite sex. This just grows on us over time.
Words like 'sweet' and 'obsess over girls' and 'I don't feel the same chemistry as I do with girls. I'm only outwardly attracted to guys'
Really shows me that you are not gay, but just in that initial bonding age of your mates.
Anyway, that's my view :)