I think it's normal. It sounds like you're battling an internal conflict between a fundamentalist creed and a modernist paradigm. What I mean is that you like women and want to be with one (modernist paradigm), however, you have evolved with the religious dogma that a women should only be in love with a man (fundamentalist creed). My best suggestion would be to open yourself up to a man. I can guarantee you that not all of us are perverted Quagmires who are simply out to use women to feed our own voracious desire for pleasure. Find a man who you can trust and see if maybe your inner struggle quells as your relationship towards men changes. If at the end of the day you want to be with a women then I see no reason why that would be wrong or abnormal.
IIN to be physically attracted to girls and still desire a man?
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I think it's normal. It sounds like you're battling an internal conflict between a fundamentalist creed and a modernist paradigm. What I mean is that you like women and want to be with one (modernist paradigm), however, you have evolved with the religious dogma that a women should only be in love with a man (fundamentalist creed). My best suggestion would be to open yourself up to a man. I can guarantee you that not all of us are perverted Quagmires who are simply out to use women to feed our own voracious desire for pleasure. Find a man who you can trust and see if maybe your inner struggle quells as your relationship towards men changes. If at the end of the day you want to be with a women then I see no reason why that would be wrong or abnormal.