It is normal to worry about this, but I would question the decision of a 13 year old sending revealing pics. If the guy is willing to look at them red flags should have been set off immediately. As long as you hang out with normal guys, and are selective on who they are, you have no reason to worry. Never hurts to be careful though!
oh yes, i am not 13 anymore, im 20 now lol. that happened a long time ago, before the vanessa hudgens scandal, before any of the safety concerns were publicized and picture messaging was new. i admit i was really, really dumb. but i am ultra careful now, to the point of where i feel im paranoid around even guys from work my age.
but thank you, you're right it is better to be safe than sorry!
yeah, im thinking about denouncing guy friends altogether. do guys ever wanna be friends with a girl if its not convenient, without developing romantic/sexual feelings? a group setting may be more appropriate boy-girl communication, im thinking. also im not a guys' girl-- i don't like sports or dirty jokes. i'm thinking only that kind of girl can experience platonic relations with a guy friend...
I have a couple of "girly girl" friends. Most of them are girls that I have known a super long time though. I have a few that I have not known very long that is strictly platonic. Its much harder at first though lolz.
IIN to be paranoid that guys who like me will become obsessive?
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It is normal to worry about this, but I would question the decision of a 13 year old sending revealing pics. If the guy is willing to look at them red flags should have been set off immediately. As long as you hang out with normal guys, and are selective on who they are, you have no reason to worry. Never hurts to be careful though!
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oh yes, i am not 13 anymore, im 20 now lol. that happened a long time ago, before the vanessa hudgens scandal, before any of the safety concerns were publicized and picture messaging was new. i admit i was really, really dumb. but i am ultra careful now, to the point of where i feel im paranoid around even guys from work my age.
but thank you, you're right it is better to be safe than sorry!
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Just don't get so safe that it hinders how you live your life! lolz Remember to have fun!
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yeah, im thinking about denouncing guy friends altogether. do guys ever wanna be friends with a girl if its not convenient, without developing romantic/sexual feelings? a group setting may be more appropriate boy-girl communication, im thinking. also im not a guys' girl-- i don't like sports or dirty jokes. i'm thinking only that kind of girl can experience platonic relations with a guy friend...
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I have alot of female friends, as normal or close friends :o.
So yeah, we guys do have female friends without having the need to develop something romantic/sexual (:
I have a couple of "girly girl" friends. Most of them are girls that I have known a super long time though. I have a few that I have not known very long that is strictly platonic. Its much harder at first though lolz.