Is it normal to be obsessed with a guy i barely know!

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I am completely obsessed with this guy I went to school with when I was like 9 years old. I'm 20 now and I see him in parties and stuff every now and again because we have lots of friends in common but ofcourse I never have the guts to talk to him or anything, I just stare from a safe distance lol, but we are firends on facebook and I cant help viewing his profile at least 3 times a day, spend the whole day daydreaming, imagining what it would be like to be with him, and this is going to sound pathetic but when I go to bed I kind of like to imagine he's sleeping next to me. I'm somewhere between in love and totally obsessed with him, I swear to god i can see myself marrying him and having babies together and everything else. Is sthg wrong with me?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Try talking to him.

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  • YumInsanity
    11 years ago | pl

    Lots of people are fucking mental like you, don't worry about it. When they eventually drag the lake and pull his dismembered corpse out of it you can say you tried to warn people with this post

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  • Justaguy101
    11 years ago | pl

    next time you see him run up and flash him ..give him a reason to think about you ...if your that desperate for him just ask him in private if he would like to try your head! if that dont work you have no chance so you might as well just stalk him as much as possible

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  • iintolovethissite
    12 years ago | pl

    lol hed run in the other direction if he ever found out lol

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago | pl

    Stalking is not healthy.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    definitely nothing wrong with you at all. I mean, the 9 years old thing doesn't relate to my situation but I have liked this guy at my school for the whole year and I am practically OBSESSED with him. I stalk him daily on facebook and I keep a chat window for him open to see when he comes online. I have even facebook stalked his sister. I feel so creepy because I don't even know the kid but I literally feel in love with him and I barely know anything about him. I scare myself sometimes hahahah.

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago | pl

    seeing anyone from your childhood after that long will put more importance on them, especially if its the opposite gender and if you think they are cute/hot.

    If he likes ya even one bit im sure things will work out for ya over time...just dont became a stalker cuz that'll def scare him

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago | pl

    What?? Nine years old?????? Okay nevermind, I read the rest now. I thought you were gonna say you haven't seen him since you were 9, but I read the rest now.

    So you go to parties, and you see how good looking he is now, you shy away from saying something to him... yeah, it sounds like a crush. Talk to him already! And if you're afraid to do it in person, just say something over facebook.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    No... It's honestly a bit stalkerish...

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