IIN to be gay, but eat pussy?

I agree with the others that you sound bisexual rather than gay, even if you do feel you fit gay stereotypes in how you like to present yourself. I see why you would feel pressure to identify as gay as society often mocks and dismisses bisexuality as “greedy” or “a stop over on the way to gay town” when in reality it’s a valid sexuality and more common than a lot of people think.