Is it normal to be flattered by other people's creepy fantasies of you?

I'm a bi male and my friend recently revealed to me that he used to have creepy dreams about me. Basically, I was his sexual fantasy, and he used to dream about fucking me. He told me he liked the dreams and that he masturbated over them once he woke up. Generally, people would be creeped out by this but I just took it as a compliment. I figured it was nice to be fuck-able, I guess? Is this weird?

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Comments ( 13 )
  • mitochondria

    That's not that creepy to me personally?
    I would find it flattering too.

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  • Energy

    I think some people like to pretend like they think its creepy, when really, they're flattered by it.

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  • dirtybirdy

    My thoughts and dreams would flatter many

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    • Justsomejerk

      *flutter

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      • dirtybirdy

        I had a dream about you once...twice..... we..... nevermind

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  • Legion

    Definetly a very sincere complement. Also, very brave of your friend to admit that. Id say he may even have feelings for you. Has he done anything else that may show this?

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    • WalrusBait

      He used to, but now he has a girlfriend. He only told me he used to like me once he'd began going out with his girlfriend, though.

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  • Allec

    Haha i would be very flattered!

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  • dappled

    As far as I know, nobody has ever had a creepy fantasy about me, but - like you - I think I'd be quite pleased if they did, even if it was something I didn't want to do.

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    • RinTin

      you look like a blueberry

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      • dappled

        I am experimenting with my sexuality. I've been a purplist way too long and so, over the next fortnight, I shall change colour once per day and be a rainbow of fruit flavours. Ironically, the rainbow is the symbol of gay pride and "fruit" is a slang word for gay.

        I notice you're on your own journey of self-discovery from bara to hound (and perhaps eventually back to root beer). :P

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        • RinTin

          lol. *Pulls alarm* ALERT ALERT to all the male users. *Rainbow lights swirl* :P

          That's funny because I had a dream I pulled the alarm in a hospital because a man of, as yet, indeterminate type (or color :P) locked people in a room (which I was in but ran out of once he started writing the date on a whiteboard) and released a noxious gas.

          I'm devolving. Soon I'll be a Rin with a ✿ and then I'll be gone. Ironic, seeing as how capys eat ✿ for breakfast. ;)

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    This is a dangerous thing. Watch your back because some of these people might be psychos.

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