Is it normal to be extremely attracted to older women

I'm 23 years old, and love women of all legal ages..But I have always been extremely attracted to women much older than me.. Anywhere from 30 years old+
Despite the way they look, I'm attracted to them simply because of their age. I've slept with a women over 20 years older than me and the age difference made it seem more taboo or naughty.. is this attraction normal or??

Is It Normal?
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  • Speaking as a 34.yo.woman, I can say that women reach their sexual peak after 30. We are generally less judgemental, more confident and independent. What's not to like?

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  • I believe that age, if you're both adults, does not really matter. As it seems to be, you are attracted to older women because they are more in control or/and have their lives figured out which is an understandable turn on. It is absolutely normal for me. Good luck!

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  • I've got an insane attraction toward Helen Mirren.

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  • Fairly normal. I was chatting with two middle-age women/milf's at the sports bar one night, and, while the one had her eyes on me and was very flirty (kind of all over me), I was more interested in ther other one. Salon owner, did herself up, great smile, long, polished nails, low-cut enough shirt that showed off her heaving boobs. And had the sexiest walk I've ever seen. I ended up getting her number and making those two change places, so the one I wanted was next to me.

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  • I like older women too.

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  • same here actually super same here

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  • Yes its normal, older woman know what they want. Its that simple.

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  • It is normal. I am in the same boat, have been since I was a teenager. However, let me explain some of the difficulties that lay ahead of you (I am in my thirties now, and have been there):
    1. As you get older, your attraction for these women who want a real young man will start to wear thin. You may still see yourself as twenty, and you may look younger than your age, but they will see you as older- and not what they are looking for.
    2. Depending on how big a difference you are talking about, it can cause major life headaches. Yes, just sex is fine no matter the difference, but when it comes to relationships--- here is the problem. So you decide in ten years you want to settle down, etc, not have kids necessarily- just get a home, etc- and she does not want to do so because she picked you for your "fun qualities." Or you start getting finally ready to have a family, and she is getting ready to retire.
    3. Dealing with her family. Her parents, if they are still around, might not accept you- and her children most usually will not. They will look at you as either using her for money, or as some sort of a loser because you are with her.
    4. If you wait too long, and later decide that you do want to be with someone who is in child bearing mode, you will be forced to either leave someone you are connected to (which is impossible for anyone who loves someone to do, and NOT right, making you the bad guy), or you will be forced to give that up.
    5. Do you want to lose someone when you are fifty, and they are eighty, and now it is too late for you to have kids, etc? Or to be alone at sixty? People live eighty to ninety years on average now.
    6. And yes, it may just be sex right now, but sex can turn into feelings.

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  • would you fuck old lady clinton ? i wanna gag.

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  • I like the old fat ones. Big flabby ass. Sagging tits. So many wrinkles her face looks like a dried prune. Ah, a vision to behold! And toothless!

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  • I'd suggest granny porn when things are slow.

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  • Very, I always was and still am. they no what they want and no games. life is good that way

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  • its normal to have things we find attractive and have heard plenty of men liking older women as many younger women like older men me being one of them..

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  • It's not normal. Men are attracted to fertility/youth.

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    • So I got downvoted. If the question was reversed and a young girl said she liked older men you are probably all going to say he is creepy for responding to her favours and how gross older men are and blahblahblah. What happened to this world for this complete role reversal?

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  • So stupid

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