Is it normal to be attracted to the same sex but not gay??

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I'M NOT GAY and I have a girlfriend and everything and I'm really worried because I saw this guy and I thought he was really attractive and couldn't stop staring at Dick's Sports Shop; he was an employee. When I was paying for my items he gave me back my change and every word he said just made me shiver and he was so hot... It's terrible I'm a boy and I'm thinking this way. But here's the thing, he gave me my change and on a dollar bill it said " My Number: *** *** **** " (don't want to say his number " And I was like "Um is this for me...?" He smiled at me and I was really turned on. I got into my car and looked down and had a massive erection :i is this normal for a straight guy to be so attracted to a male?? :(

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  • Fall_leaves
    9 years ago | pl

    I love Dicks I could blow my whole paycheck there!

    I say it's normal, I have a lady boner for one of my friends she's absolutely gorgeous. We've always had a thing for eachother but other than that I consider myself to be straight, as does she.

    Just don't cheat on your girlfriend with him, if you decide to hit him up. Texting is one thing but if you do decide to hookup breakup with your girlfriend.

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  • tinahn
    8 years ago | pl

    If you got a boner from this encounter you're Bisexual man.

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  • wistfulmaiden
    9 years ago | pl

    youre bi

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  • Lonely2
    9 years ago | pl

    Sexuality doesnt really fit into thse neat little categories that we have created to help us understandthe world....what I noticed about myself...is that I am overwhelmingly attracted to females but every so often like one in 5000 or so I see a ale that turns me on...it is so rare that I never even expect it or look for it...so that is why it usually comes as a shock or surprise...I guess if it happened a lot I would say Im bi ...but it is so rare that I still consider myself heterosexual...as I never acted on it...but if the guy felt the same way during one of those times amd made a move I probably would have acted on it....

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  • eu1979
    9 years ago | pl

    it's normal to be attractive to him.
    you just shouldn't try to put labels, or belong into one label. you are how you are, and be happy (i know easier said than done, even for me).

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  • bfus
    9 years ago | pl

    It is pretty normal to feel same sex attraction sometimes. Don't let it bother you or make you feel uncomfortable, you're no more or less gay today than you were before. I would suggest getting more comfortable with yourself before you decide to experiment, if you are inclined to do that. You will enjoy it more if you are comfortable with yourself first.

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  • dejavugirl
    9 years ago | pl

    Happens every once in a while to everyone... Don't worry!

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  • WonderGuy0103
    9 years ago | pl

    look up the Kinsey Scale

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  • tripw7
    9 years ago | pl

    Hey, what have you got to lose? Give him a call. Obviously he was interested in you as well. Meet at a place like Starbucks first or at a bar that you are not known. Good luck.

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