Is it normal to be angry adult daughter cashed in saving bonds

She is 33 and is a little slow.She did it in such a sneaky way I feel betrayed.I feel robbed. She is slow I don't think she could handle having a bf.I did say in passing that she could possibly do so after she was in the Loony bin for suicidal ideations but I changed my mind and was hoping she would wait until my death. She bought a car and got an apt with someone.She said she was sick of hearing her father and I scream at each at other and having her father watch her like a twelve year old. I am thinking of telling my other son in law so he will ground her from the nieces and nephews. she said she will continue to do little errands for us and she hopes we don't start a war with the entire family. I don't think I can trust her ever again.i think out relationship might be over.
The people at work think I am justified in being so pissed The neighbours are sick of hearing me scream and scream and scream at her on the phone. I feel like she is replacing me and rejecting me because I did that to my own mother and know she will do the same.But she says that is not the case , she just needs freedom and to not be screamed and ranted at every night