Is it normal to be a virgin with no self confidence?

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Hello and thanks for taking the time to read this any advice will be appreciated. I'm 21 years old...And clearly have not had sex yet. I am hesitant to do so now because...When I have a chance to do so...I step down...Because I don't want to look stupid...because I will be fumbling around because of my lack of experience. I mean I am not ashamed of not having sex yet and ye half my family thinks I am gay because I haven't had sex yet....And I want to...but I mean I have not kissed a girl..so even leading up to anything big I would still be in unknown territory, not felt a womens chest yet NOTHING....And its not like I am some dorky kind of guy I am pretty tall and I work out 5 days a week....I mean I consider 90% of the women around me pretty damn hot...so trying to be..myself without being intimidated by how attractive they are is hard...Imagine if they got close to me and something happened and I lost control after like 2 seconds...how embarrassing would that be? ....I don't know I appoligize for rambling but every day I have to hear about how I am still a virgin and I get my balls busted because I am one of the few who believe a man can have sex with one women and be a better man for it...

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  • chicken471bologna
    12 years ago

    normal

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  • Tuxedocat
    12 years ago

    That's so cute. Guys like you are the only kind I would ever have sex with, and I'm sure that I'm not the only female who feels this way. Don't ever change, people are gonna call you weird because they wish that they had the self-control that you do. (:

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  • trytoforgetthis
    12 years ago

    I applaud you.
    Many people who lose their virginity do it just to lose it, just so they won't be a virgin anymore, but why? Just to lose the title and be one with the crowd?
    I say, to hell with the crowd!
    When you get there, you'll know what to do. Don't over-analyze everything and enjoy yourself until that happens.

    Also, try to get over the fear of messing up. Shit happens, but the situation in your mind is almost always waaaaaaay worse than what happens in reality.

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  • Dodge4Life
    12 years ago

    Thanks alot everyone...I appreciate it :)

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