Is it normal to be a straight man, but attracted to my male best friend?

I'm a completely straight 20 year-old man, have had numerous girlfriends, and hooked up with dozens of girls. But for some reason I find myself sexually attracted to my (also male) best friend. He is tanned, has a great body and is very well endowed. We are incredibly close friends and spend almost every day together.

I'm certain that I'm not gay, and I don't feel attracted to any other man at all.

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Comments ( 26 )
  • lostred

    Your mostlikely bicurious or bisexual just more particular about the guys you like, sexuality is ambiguous as the best of times, do a little bit of research and there's so many 'labels' but your all hetro it seems.

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  • That's gay, you're gay, eat some hay, and by the way, have a nice day, being gay.

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  • Fuck me. Please use the search bar. That should be a requirement before submitting any post. Using the title of the submitted post, we should all be redirected to similar stories. If the current topic has been covered over 746,294 times (like this one)...automatic reject.

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    • kini.mesi

      I can fuck you, if you want xD

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      • perz.aven899

        me too just contact me haha

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  • GreyWulfen

    This question has been asked a shitload of times. Is it so hard to use the search function?
    Okay, two things:

    1. Yes, it's normal.
    2. You are not straight, goddamit.

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  • Butthurt

    Definitely normal. I think everyone has people who are the same sex that they find attractive. Everyone is a bit bicurious.

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    • tripw7

      Agree completely. Everyone has people of the same sex that they are attracted to. Just enjoy that they look nice and are attractive.

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  • fullhouse

    You are not straight. Well-endowed?? What straight guy notices that in other guys?

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  • shanghainights

    It's completely normal, everyone gets a bit curious in their life. Maybe you would be doing yourself a favour if you decided to consider whether your actually 100% straight. I'm a bi guy, and in a happy relationship with my girl.

    To be honest, if your thinking about your mate's body, and find yourself attracted to his 'endowment', there's a good chance you have at least some attraction to men.

    Cheers buddy!

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Bromance

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  • bemah

    I'm also straight (I'm female) and I've been attracted to very close friends. I'm not so so sure that it's a sexual thing, more like having a strong emotional connection to someone, and having an extreme admiration for them...i guess these feelings are just wanting to express that.

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  • Karmasbitch

    Maybe your bisexual? I don't know what else to say, I'm dissappointed in my advice lately. =|

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  • quentari

    Straight with an exception? :3

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  • handsignals

    Yet another 'IIN that I'm straight but I like tromboning my bro's' post.

    OP, your a fag.

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  • BloodRedAndTrue

    and you probably just admire him, the media has really made being gay something so crazy. both homophobia and those flaming faggots make homosexuality look negative as well.

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  • homenudist

    it is very noral to be attracted to a close friend even one the same sex it is just human to have feelings for a friend. it does not mean you are gay or bi sexual just lucky to have a good froeind to be with

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  • Phishy

    You're bisexual. That's like saying "I find this one girl sexy, but I don't find any other girls sexy."

    Have a nice day, being gay.

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  • GuessWho

    I've got news for you:
    YOU'RE NOT STRAIGHT!

    Get over him and back to the girls if you are to keep your sanity, straightness, and normality.

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  • perz.aven899

    i think evryone is slightly bisexual ,but there are certain kinds of level

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  • kyanviado

    Lets make life easy. You have a penis, he has a asshole. It's time the two met and get it over and done with

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  • LIGHTHOUSE

    It is normal. I too attracted towards some male friends but not sexually emotionally. I like to spend more times with them, try to make me their part of life, get familiar with their family members and close people ..... etc.

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  • listerfiend

    well that makes you either gay or bi, so about as normal as it is to be gay.

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  • nkwacky

    It's normal. Even straight guys often are attracted to their male close friends. It's just a male bonding thing. Nothing wrong with that . Just ask him if he wants to try something with you, and if he says yes, go for it!
    Ignore the bigots here calling you names.

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    • tripw7

      It's very normal. I have many friends through the years that I have been attracted to. Yes, I do think about how well they are endowed but I never dream about getting sexy with them. I just like guy bodies. Been married over 20 years and my offspring are very conservative.

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  • Seustewart

    Oh you're gay. Just suck his dick and get it over with. BLOW IT AND YOU'LL KNOW IT.

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