I think it's absolutely normal as well. My girlfriend has quite a sexual history as well (especially when compared to myself) and I hate to think about her 'giving' herself and her body to someone and having been intimate with others, but these feelings are just a part of caring for a person!
You simply want to be the only one for them and you feel like the previous partners 'defiled' her in some way. Especially with women who in my opinion get fucked (to say it bluntly) while men seem to be in control in such a situation, so there is less of a vulnerable situation from the male perspective.
Me and my girlfriend have naturally discussed it, but I prefer just not thinking about it at all. I also feel that it helps me that I do not know and/or have seen any of her previous partners, it creates some sort of a distance.
You should not let it affect your relationship though, just be happy you are the one that is with her now, you cannot turn back time anyway. I honestly think it is a true sign of caring for your girlfriend though!
IIN to be a little put off knowing your partner's been with others?
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I think it's absolutely normal as well. My girlfriend has quite a sexual history as well (especially when compared to myself) and I hate to think about her 'giving' herself and her body to someone and having been intimate with others, but these feelings are just a part of caring for a person!
You simply want to be the only one for them and you feel like the previous partners 'defiled' her in some way. Especially with women who in my opinion get fucked (to say it bluntly) while men seem to be in control in such a situation, so there is less of a vulnerable situation from the male perspective.
Me and my girlfriend have naturally discussed it, but I prefer just not thinking about it at all. I also feel that it helps me that I do not know and/or have seen any of her previous partners, it creates some sort of a distance.
You should not let it affect your relationship though, just be happy you are the one that is with her now, you cannot turn back time anyway. I honestly think it is a true sign of caring for your girlfriend though!