IIN to be a little put off knowing your partner's been with others?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago | pl

    Of course there's also the irony-angle here.

    Something to consider before holding a woman's past against her.... do you want her to stay?

    Cos if you hold her past against her, that's a great way to encourage her to leave. And to find someone else who is less judgmental.

    in which case her past history of being in someone else's arms and bed might just become a very CURRENT reality.

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    • ILikeToPickMySkin
      11 years ago | pl

      I'm not holding it against her outwardly. This is all in my head. She doesn't know how I feel about the subject and I don't bring it up because I know it's hypocritical. And she's not a cheater. In fact, she usually refuses to break up with someone herself. She distances herself from them until they can't take it. I've been her friend for a while before we started dating. I know how she works. I almost wish I didn't so I wouldn't have to think about all of this.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        11 years ago | pl

        oh i never said she'll cheat... i simply said she might leave you. which isn't cheating. that's just breaking up.

        but even if it's in your own head only... perhaps it's time to start conditioning your mind. it's possible you know. every time you start thinking about it, remind yourself that she's with you now and to "stop it"

        might do you some good

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