Just because it's obvious doesn't mean it cannot be stated.
In fact sometimes that's the best reason TO state it... people get so sidetracked by little aspects they often forget - or try to overlook the main obvious issue.
In your case it's the fact that you're letting her past affect you when it's not your business and rather hypocritical.
Perhaps it's time to start concentrating on that, rather than focusing on imagining others touching her.
After all you cannot change the past... so what good does it to do dwell on it? Unless of course your goal is to drive yourself into a self-made bad mood... in which case, congratulations on that.
IIN to be a little put off knowing your partner's been with others?
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Wow. Thank you Captain Obvious. That's why this is confusing to me. And I haven't felt like this with other people.
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Just because it's obvious doesn't mean it cannot be stated.
In fact sometimes that's the best reason TO state it... people get so sidetracked by little aspects they often forget - or try to overlook the main obvious issue.
In your case it's the fact that you're letting her past affect you when it's not your business and rather hypocritical.
Perhaps it's time to start concentrating on that, rather than focusing on imagining others touching her.
After all you cannot change the past... so what good does it to do dwell on it? Unless of course your goal is to drive yourself into a self-made bad mood... in which case, congratulations on that.