At 28 you don't need people to coddle you or wallow in your own self pity you need to get moving on a career or marry. I have tact but it's not warranted in this situation. If she was 18-23 she can get some leeway on these matters because at that point you are still a young adult figuring out how the world works. At 28... you should have an idea of how shit it can be without a plan. She didnt have one nor had the responsibility to show that she can act independently. Not having a job was a big red flag. Everyone who isnt married needs a job, especially when living with a bf cause if she was paying rent then she would still have a roof that she owns over her head.
Not a rant just an explanation for the most disliked comment on this thread.
IIN to be 28 and not have this
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I think your brutal truth may have been too much for her. You are certainly right about math and beauty. Keep the faith, my friend.
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At 28 you don't need people to coddle you or wallow in your own self pity you need to get moving on a career or marry. I have tact but it's not warranted in this situation. If she was 18-23 she can get some leeway on these matters because at that point you are still a young adult figuring out how the world works. At 28... you should have an idea of how shit it can be without a plan. She didnt have one nor had the responsibility to show that she can act independently. Not having a job was a big red flag. Everyone who isnt married needs a job, especially when living with a bf cause if she was paying rent then she would still have a roof that she owns over her head.
Not a rant just an explanation for the most disliked comment on this thread.