Ah yep 28 and nothing to your name? Well that's your own fault. Moved in with a boyfriend without getting a job? Never bought a car nor rented a flat? No sympathy here.
28 is the low management in an entry level job or at least being in a low position career portion of your life. Not scrounging off of your parents or significant other.
If you cant muster up social courage be beautiful or get good at math because you ain't going anywhere but down.
At 28 you don't need people to coddle you or wallow in your own self pity you need to get moving on a career or marry. I have tact but it's not warranted in this situation. If she was 18-23 she can get some leeway on these matters because at that point you are still a young adult figuring out how the world works. At 28... you should have an idea of how shit it can be without a plan. She didnt have one nor had the responsibility to show that she can act independently. Not having a job was a big red flag. Everyone who isnt married needs a job, especially when living with a bf cause if she was paying rent then she would still have a roof that she owns over her head.
Not a rant just an explanation for the most disliked comment on this thread.
IIN to be 28 and not have this
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Ah yep 28 and nothing to your name? Well that's your own fault. Moved in with a boyfriend without getting a job? Never bought a car nor rented a flat? No sympathy here.
28 is the low management in an entry level job or at least being in a low position career portion of your life. Not scrounging off of your parents or significant other.
If you cant muster up social courage be beautiful or get good at math because you ain't going anywhere but down.
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I think your brutal truth may have been too much for her. You are certainly right about math and beauty. Keep the faith, my friend.
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At 28 you don't need people to coddle you or wallow in your own self pity you need to get moving on a career or marry. I have tact but it's not warranted in this situation. If she was 18-23 she can get some leeway on these matters because at that point you are still a young adult figuring out how the world works. At 28... you should have an idea of how shit it can be without a plan. She didnt have one nor had the responsibility to show that she can act independently. Not having a job was a big red flag. Everyone who isnt married needs a job, especially when living with a bf cause if she was paying rent then she would still have a roof that she owns over her head.
Not a rant just an explanation for the most disliked comment on this thread.
... He said, desperately punching the words into his phone during his break at McD's.
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I go to a trade school paid for by my 911 GI bill. I own my own car and pay rent (to my own parents) oh yeah I'm 21.