I had the same situation. I was 18, she was 13. we connected on every level ..but of course sex was new to both of us. by 14 almost 15 she was ready, willing, and more than able. I of course got scared with the age, law thing and backed away. Killing our relationship as it was/is something she really needed to have with someone she respected and loved and trusted. I have always wished I had been there for her.
She later got into all kinds of trouble and last I spoke with her... 10 yrs ago? she was tweakin' with local trash and raising two kids with a guy.
If you both fell strongly about sex pro or con, explore the do's and don'ts about it. I feel we have forced our society into an age based limit for sexual relationships that should be more naturally allowed.
IIN to be 18 and be in a serious relationship with a 14 year old?
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I had the same situation. I was 18, she was 13. we connected on every level ..but of course sex was new to both of us. by 14 almost 15 she was ready, willing, and more than able. I of course got scared with the age, law thing and backed away. Killing our relationship as it was/is something she really needed to have with someone she respected and loved and trusted. I have always wished I had been there for her.
She later got into all kinds of trouble and last I spoke with her... 10 yrs ago? she was tweakin' with local trash and raising two kids with a guy.
If you both fell strongly about sex pro or con, explore the do's and don'ts about it. I feel we have forced our society into an age based limit for sexual relationships that should be more naturally allowed.