At this point, your involvement with this girl is going to deprive her of the growing up she needs to do with her peers. If she completely misses the "high school" experience and spends all her free time with you, on the computer or otherwise, she will mature too fast. If you truly love this girl, you must distance yourself from her and let her grow up without you in her life. If you do not let her go, I would bet you she won't even finish high school, and you will probably ruin her life.
After she reaches 18, if you haven't found someone and she wants to get together with you, then go for it.
Sorry dude, you just are not good for her, in the long run.
While I agree with some of this, that seems like an overly pessimistic prediction. How do you figure an online relationship would prevent her from finishing high school?
IIN to be 18 and be in a serious relationship with a 14 year old?
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At this point, your involvement with this girl is going to deprive her of the growing up she needs to do with her peers. If she completely misses the "high school" experience and spends all her free time with you, on the computer or otherwise, she will mature too fast. If you truly love this girl, you must distance yourself from her and let her grow up without you in her life. If you do not let her go, I would bet you she won't even finish high school, and you will probably ruin her life.
After she reaches 18, if you haven't found someone and she wants to get together with you, then go for it.
Sorry dude, you just are not good for her, in the long run.
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While I agree with some of this, that seems like an overly pessimistic prediction. How do you figure an online relationship would prevent her from finishing high school?
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They will eventually run away together or she'll move in with him and that will be the beginning of the end for her.