Is it normal to ask your girlfriend/wife to mess with your ass?

I've never done this but I really want to know what it's like but I'm scared I'll just gross her out and scare her away

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Based on 73 votes (61 yes)
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  • KnobOnMySlob

    I think you should absolutely tell her. You could start the conversation with asking about any hidden fantasies they might have so it's not just like "so yea, wanna like you know" LoL. Plus once you have that conversation, you won't be so stressed out about it; and it could be fun :)

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    It's normal to want to try something new. Perhaps you should ask her what she'd like to try, then tell her yours, and exchange favors?

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  • watweruthinkin

    The anus has a lot of nerves that love stimulation, a well lubed finger in and out as well as touching, not squishing, the prostate is a wonderful feeling, hell yeah and if she wont, RUN, she isnt into full on sex.

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  • justacatheter

    i takes time start by having her rub you hole with some baby lotion tell her is sore make her feel like she is helping you, then next time tell her to insert some and in time she will have a big dildo in there...

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  • UnabashedUser

    Yes she could wimp out. I suggest you show her some porno with girl-to-guy asshole play on it and see how she reacts first before you even mention it to her.

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  • bogbrush

    what is it with men and arseholes?

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    • If we're talking about fucking a gal in the ass... no idea, maybe no worries about contraceptives?

      If we're talking about the man's ass, it's the easiest way to play with the prostate, it's really sensitive and feels amazing to have it stroked gently. For some guys it's even better than playing with your dick

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      • tansf

        grosss

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        • Knightmare

          Not as gross as some things I've seen.

          ... And wish I hadn't seen...

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  • randypete

    get a strap on for her

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    • Knightmare

      Isn't that supposed to happen after Anon knows she's OK with the idea?

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