Is it normal to always be friendzoned?

Whenever I approach a member of the female species with romantic and seductive interests in mind, she always informs me that I am nice but that I am just not her "type", and that she doesn't want a relationship but she would like to be friends with me. This is seriously how every girl and/or woman responds to me. I'm starting to think that no girl in the world is ever going to find me attractive.

Is It Normal?
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  • Time to change your approach, don't you think?
    The definition of insanity is to do the same thing over and over again, expecting a different outcome.
    I'm not saying you are crazy, but you may be driving yourself in that direction.
    Perhaps, instead of approaching a woman with "romantic and seductive interests" you might try just making friends, first.

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    • Trying to make friends is a stupid course of action, which isn't surprising considering who I am commenting to.

      If OP is friendzoned just move onto the next woman and so on and so on. Heterosexual men and women can't be friends, there will always be sexual tension.

      In terms of working together, that's a whole different dynamic, but just as "friends" that occasionally "hang out", get a reality check.

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      • When not working on boats, this guy was in several rock bands banging hundreds of girls, I think he knows what he is talking about.

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      • Oh dear, the misguided youth of today. I fear for the species, if you are an example of the boys of today. Enjoy your boy friends fella, and leave the women to us men.

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  • If you can't create sexual tension you're out of luck. Use your peripheral vision to notice any girls that are hovering. Those are your candidates. When you talk to them, pump body heat.

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  • I can't have relationships at all now. I used to love the feel of charli.m's fat fingers running up and down me. But now that anti-hero cut me off so he could be an amputee like he always dreamed, I am all alone :(

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  • Maybe if you stopped referring to them as the "female species" your luck might start turning up.

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  • Can someone give me IIN gold?

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  • "Whenever I approach a member of the female species with romantic and seductive interests in mind" BOOM there's a problem here captain

    Imagine approaching a female from a distance but when you get in her personal bubble you unzip your pants and pull out your cock.

    If a chick is a 7/10 in your mind make her a 4/10 you have to trick your mind, she's a fat disgusting slob that's what you need to be thinking

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  • Its just not your time, Don't try and get 'seductive' don't be desperate. I know I personally cannot stand it when guys are so desperate that they'd do anything just to have a girlfriend. Wait a bit someone will find you attractive soon enough.

    And make sure you go for girls who are acc in your league, not meaning to sound hateful but theres no point running after someone whose not gonna notice you.
    And 'not my type'usually means ew wtf no. Just saying :)

    Good luck though

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    • all this league stuff is bullsh!t

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  • Why do you even care about this? Why not do something productive?

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  • What you are dealing with is the new "modern" women of today. These women automatically friendzone guys because of "equality" and it's ridiculous acceptance.

    The only course of action is to try and initiate sex, if you get rebuffed, just walk away, no harm, no foul and move onto the next woman. They will eventually learn their lesson or end up completely alone with 7 cats at 47 yrs old.

    Either way it's not something to worry about.

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