Is it normal to ache all over after being topped for the first time?

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Yesterday was really my first time really being...er... F**ked by another guy. My ass doesn't hurt at all but I'm sore all over lol. I feel like I went rock climbing or did some crazy yoga for 6 hours straight. My back was arched kinda odd because of the position we were in and that's where some of it is, but my legs my arms... Idk. I've had sexual encounters last longer than this and that seemed a lot more physically strenuous. Maybe I was just tensed up because I was nervous. What do you guys think?

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  • seekelp
    9 years ago | pl

    I would expect your butthole to hurt more, but I've never had sex in the butt.

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  • Mat4Mat
    9 years ago | pl

    My first time, the guy made me ejaculate twice and I didn't even touch my dick. He was gentle with his member, but rough and passionate with all the rest! I hurt for three days, good hurt!
    I don't "bottom" much anymore, but when I do, I want to feel I did!
    I think you should enjoy it! is a life changing experience to be remember; you just added a wide range of sexual options to your bed!..... Most people go thru life not knowing what their butt can add to their journey!

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  • WonderGuy0103
    9 years ago | pl

    Not normal, but not unheard of. As long as you enjoyed it. Sounds like you just had a wild time haha

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago | pl

    Lol yeah. I still ache. It was fuckin INCREDIBLE.

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  • flowerchild94
    9 years ago | pl

    Probably from the tensing for sure! Sex when done right IS a good workout :) feel the burnnnn.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago | pl

    OK. Yeah sorry for the labeling. I didnt know if I was allowed to use... colorful language heh. New here. And don't get me wrong, it was fuckin amazing. Totally takenabback at how much I enjoyed it. I've tried it once before but didn't get far at all because bit hurt like hell. Helps that this time my partner doesn't have an intimidatingly huge cock Lol. In my opinion there is such a thing as too big.

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  • VirgilManly
    9 years ago | pl

    Not my area of expertise. Sorry.

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  • borntobeme
    9 years ago | pl

    You should always try to relaxe when being topped. As a BI bottom, I usually get a little, but pleasant burning in my entrance, after being fucked, mostly because I enjoy gripping the cock tightly as he starts to cum. I've never had any pain or discomfort, just pure joy from giving it up.

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  • handsignals
    9 years ago | pl

    Who calls it 'topped'?

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