Iv been in open relationships before. I personally prefer them. I’m not a naturally jealous person. I can get that way of course but that’s why there must be communication. My love for that person was never in question because she wanted something from someone else as well as me. But with how this persons wife is doing it isn’t something I’d put up with. It sounds disrespectful to me.
I agree, telling him it's because he's not big enough for her isn't kind or respectful. She sounds superficial and immature as well as disrespectful.
Wanting someone else as well as the primary partner is normal but actually doing something about it has to be with respect and agreement of all parties.
IIN the wife wants a second husband
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It’s fine to want sex from other people outside of the relationship if both agree to it. But the way she’s going about it is really shitty.
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would you reallly be okay with it if you cared for the person? even if you thought you were something tells me it would upset anyone
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Iv been in open relationships before. I personally prefer them. I’m not a naturally jealous person. I can get that way of course but that’s why there must be communication. My love for that person was never in question because she wanted something from someone else as well as me. But with how this persons wife is doing it isn’t something I’d put up with. It sounds disrespectful to me.
I agree, telling him it's because he's not big enough for her isn't kind or respectful. She sounds superficial and immature as well as disrespectful.
Wanting someone else as well as the primary partner is normal but actually doing something about it has to be with respect and agreement of all parties.
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No, wanting someone else outside of your relationship makes you a disgusting whore who doesn't know what love is.
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Maybe that kind of relationship is good for you personally but not everyone feels that owning their partner as if they are property is good or ideal.
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It's not owning.
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My apologies I don’t mean to suggest that you see it as that. It’s just how I see monogamous relationships.
I was kinda interested until she mentioned the part about me being smaller. I know it's not huge but damn.