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basically when guys see a hot girl or what not they just want to have sex with her nothing else. but when i see a girl i find attractive i just want to kiss them hold them and cuddle them, not have sex i know it sounds weird but how weird??
its like i dont have that sexual instinct that other guys have.
Yeah that is true, but once you start making out ur weenie will have a plan of it own.
It is much more normal to require an emotional attachment of some type in order to have sexual feelings towards someone than simply having random desires to stick your self into any warm hole because the covering on the outside of their bones happens to be in a configuration that is considered attractrive in this decade. Next decade it will be a completely different body type that is attractive.
Oh and "Basically when guys see a hot girl or what not they just want to have sex with her nothing else." this is NOT true or applicable to all guys, as you know since you've just excluded yourself from that generalisation.
yer weenie will wake up man. better off with the kissing and cuddling anyways. he'll get WAY more action in the long run unless he's a runt.
The hormones are still raging but i wont have sex with just anyone only a part of me does...
I'm the same way. Whenever I see an attractive girl I just want to talk to them and have them share with me their life story. I'm not really a horndog like most guys either. I simply enjoy getting to know others.
This is very normal and I think civilized and well educated guys are like this.
I have a male friend who can't watch porn because he needs to be emotionally attached to the girl in order to be turned on.
You are a gentleman. Stick with that. And find a woman who values that, not a bitch, a very intelligent and competent girl. You will have a very happy love life if you do so.
You get stronger romantic attractions than sexual ones. yes this is normal, and a lot of girls prefer it (in general more men get stronger sexual attractions, and more women get stronger romantic attractions).
its only normal because you clearly arent good with the ladies and thus havent had much experience cuddling and all that..
Are u more into her clothing brands, and shoes, dressed then when u might get to see them laying around the bed as you caress and kiss? I see your point but I have the desire to taste all of them if Im attraccted from a glance though. was your mother as affectionate as you needed her to be growing up,in the aspects of attention and so on? no harm or disrespect intended.Like all young womens future relationships are about the father 90 % of my experiance with lifes adventures has rang true...
What othr guys say isnt 100% what they feel or think ... Just keep it in mind ...dont compare urself for what they say but u may Rely on a best freind advice
"IIN that i think this when i see a girl
When i see a girl i find a attractive i always say in my head "I would marry her" instead of thinking about sex like people say most guys think."
You posted this one too didn't you?
Omg I go trough the same. But only when I see a realy beautiful girl who acts like a civilized woman. I just want to go up to her, get to know her, and go for a walk. I feel so wierd for this but I guess im not alone thanks lol