Is it normal that we pleasure each other in our sleep?

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My boyfriend and I experience this strange phenomenon where we will start pleasuring each other while we're sleeping. On several occasions I have woken up either orally pleasuring him or giving him a hand job and sometimes I do it without even waking up! He does the same the me. I cannot count how many times I've woken up from a dead sleep and he is fingering me (sorry for the lack of a better term) or rubbing my clitoris.

Is this normal? Are we the only couple that experiences this? I'm not complaining, because it's a nice surprise to wake up to, but are we crazy or something?

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  • CountessDouche
    8 years ago | pl

    Your boyfriend is gonna get the shit kicked out of him if he falls asleep next to someone on a plane.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      LOL

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  • JD777
    8 years ago | pl

    I think that's awesome - means you are really into each other. Enjoy the closeness. My gf and I often wake up fondling each other in our sleep. Sometimes when we wake up like that in the middle of the night, we have great sex and go back to sleep with big smiles on our faces!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Well I'm glad I'm not the only one! I thought it would stop after the first couple months, but it has been four years and it still happens quite frequently. I really enjoy it, but I was just a little concerned that there was something wrong with us.

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  • rrmalone
    4 years ago | pl

    Anything done while you are "sleeping" is OK. You Are not responsible. I suggest taking more "naps" together (use protection before the nap starts).
    Have you ever heard the term " sleeping together"?
    Please share future "sleep" sessions.

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  • Gspyder
    8 years ago | pl

    I've been told on this site that apparently its rape. Glad you got more positive feedback

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      What? Really? Wow, I wouldn't consider this rape at all! I'm always willing for my boyfriend to touch me. I guess it COULD be rape if you were in one of those relationships where sex is a chore, but sex is always welcome in my books!

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  • regisphilbin
    8 years ago | pl

    sounds kinky, definitely not for me

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago | pl

    I was lucky enough to experience this in one relationship and we both loved it: sort of "Oh this is a nice dream, oh wow it's real".

    Who's the idiot on here who says it doesn't happen?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      He's just that, an idiot :)

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  • GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!
    8 years ago | pl

    It happens. I had an ex who would wake me up with BJs in the morning. That part was good. However, one morning I woke up to the sound of her moaning. Looked down and she was riding me raw. I just kind of went with it and finished on her belly. After I finished I asked her. " What if I didn't wake up and came in you?". She replied "Then you cum in me". That's not cool. I can't control my body when Im sleeping and I don't want no babies.

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    • mystery7
      8 years ago | pl

      I had an ex who used to the same for me. A great BJ is the best way to be woken from a deep sleep. ;-)

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  • gloryholeflasher
    8 years ago | pl

    I'm a very sound sleeper so I don't know what happens to me in my sleep, but my wife has told me many times about the nice massage she gave me in my sleep and that I seemed to really be enjoying it.
    I have often started out kissing her neck and back and worked my way down to her "nether" regions while she was sleeping and ended up performing oral on her. She loves being woke up that way, and we both sleep very well when it's over!

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago | pl

    Although this does sound quite farfetched... I think I do believe you kinda.
    I have this friend, he is heavily into music recording. I can't tell you how many times I caught him fast asleep in front of the computer busy playing guitar solos.

    People sleepwalk, people sleep eat.. so it might not be too absurd to think they might even sleepstickfingerinsideanunsuspectingbuttholemaybe

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  • HATIMTAI
    8 years ago | pl

    I think it is normal to newly wed couple !

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  • Shroot
    8 years ago | pl

    This doesn't happen.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      Maybe not to lonely people like you.

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      • Shroot
        8 years ago | pl

        Says the one making up stories because they're lonely?

        I also have a girlfriend.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago | pl

          Pffffft, that doesn't happen. Assholes like you don't get girlfriends. Stop making up stories :)

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