Some people prefer to wait to move anywhere in intimacy, there is zero issue around how quick or how slow you guys decide to move. I usually moved a lot “slower” than some other folks I know, was just my preference.
Just open up a chat about it, or don’t if you don’t want to. Don’t try to push anything, intimacy should never “need convincing”, and if she drops cues that she isn’t comfortable talking about it don’t push. Having a partner who doesn’t match your pace can be a bit of a funky situation but with communication it evens out.
There’s different reasons for how people pace themselves. If you’re a good guy you will be responsive and respectful of these reasons, and if she is a good gal she will do the same for you.
IIN that we only kiss?
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Some people prefer to wait to move anywhere in intimacy, there is zero issue around how quick or how slow you guys decide to move. I usually moved a lot “slower” than some other folks I know, was just my preference.
Just open up a chat about it, or don’t if you don’t want to. Don’t try to push anything, intimacy should never “need convincing”, and if she drops cues that she isn’t comfortable talking about it don’t push. Having a partner who doesn’t match your pace can be a bit of a funky situation but with communication it evens out.
There’s different reasons for how people pace themselves. If you’re a good guy you will be responsive and respectful of these reasons, and if she is a good gal she will do the same for you.