Is it normal that we had a relationship for the 5th time and im scared?

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hi...just call me bunchie!
I am in love with my cousin.. were both girls :) I told her about my feelings with I was 13 years old and she was 12. That time, we know were still young but we had a relationship for about 3 days! it doesn't work good because she thinks that I was just lying or having fun with her. So she end it up! she went to a far place were i can't see her & we didn't talk for 1 year after what had happen.

then, after a year she came back. and again, we fall :> but this time... only for a week! when she went back to their place, she broke up with me again :( (coz she can't handle long distance relationships and she admit it! she's too weak for that kind of relationship)

now every time we see each other, she's always going back to me and it happens 3 times! but we always broke up after a week or days!!

and now I'm 20 and she's 19.. for the fifth time, we had a relationship again and we've been a month! I'm so happy for this time because its not just a day or a week of having a relationship with her! BUT i feel so scared that maybe she will leave me again! :( like what she did before! IIN?

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  • soccer2
    13 years ago | pl

    I think the first problem is that she your cousin. It's not normal or healthy to have relationships like that with a family member.

    But itjjnk the problem is that both of u are still young and might be basing your feelings that u have now, off of what u had at the age of 12/13.

    Both of u agree she can't handle long distance and it seems like u spend a lot of time apart. That's never good. Also this
    May be just a drama thing.
    I sugges u just be friends and move on. A week is not a relationship. And it doesn't look like she is ready. Sorry

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    • BABEisLOVE
      13 years ago | pl

      awww :((
      thank you for the advice...
      i know its pretty hard to do
      what you want me to do and
      i just can't do it for now..
      coz i still love her!

      hmmm...maybe someday... :|

      thanks!

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  • BABEisLOVE
    13 years ago | pl

    just now... were "cool off"
    i really don't know the reason why but she just told me that, she want to have some time alone :(
    "to fix herself"...

    hmmm...

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