Is it normal that tiger mother parenting frowned upon?

she belittled her kids never let them play or have fun or complimented them or let them feel loved see friends or relatives and they went to Harvard.If they made a minuses all their toys were destroyed. Why do people think this is wrong.Generations were parented like this with no problems.

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  • EuphoniumLizz

    Kids need to be allowed to be kids or they'll grow into adults who are stressed all the time because they can't relax or enjoy themselves. You can be successful and have fun too.

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    • pizzabrowniesushi

      Or they never grow up and never even try to accomplish anything and live on their boat on food stamps and from their donating plasma money.They are completely sarcastic and resentful toward you, if they bother to text you at all.Because the bar is set so high it is impossible to make you proud.

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  • Trianka

    Please never have kids

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  • BlackCatsAreAwesome

    It's a form of abuse and will lead to PTSD and low self-esteem.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yes!

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  • charli.m

    Because the fact that people care more about grades than the emotional, social and mental health of their children is completely fucked and contributes to many issues in society.

    If someone cares about anything more than the happiness and well being of their child, they shouldn't be parents.

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  • bridetobe

    I was raised like this and I haven't spoke to my mom since my wedding ,( it was the best) which she didn't attend because I refused to do things her way.She also blames me for my dad leaving her after 37 years of being treated like a dog.Whatever,for the first time I am enjoying my life without her.

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  • CreamPuffs

    "With no problems"

    Besides constant wars, bigotry, increased crime rates, and even more increased insanity of course.

    If you think now sucks, remember: history was even worse.

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    • EccentricWeird

      And heartbreaking!

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      • CreamPuffs

        That too. But that remains with us today. In fact it's probably more common nowadays due to increased mingling thanks to technology.

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  • Tealights

    Even though this method can make children more obedient through fear and punishment, it creates dysfunctional adults because they weren't allowed to go through the necessary emotional milestones or receive the emotional care children need to become mentally well adjusted.

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