Is it normal that the only thing that turns me on is people being nice to me?

well it's better than being turned on by people being mean to you i guess?

Damn I don't even know what could turn me on anymore, it's been so long since somebody tried doing anything sexual with me. About ten years or so. Yeah, nobody besides me touched this dick in ten bloody years. It's pathetic isn't it? to stay on topic: people being nice to me never really turn me on. Because they are usually too nice. The way they would with a child. Not being into the whole adult baby thing.. it is a major turn off for me.
Damn you unwanted childishness! Nobody is ever going to have sex with me ever again. I am sure of it.

It makes complete sense actually. I'd look into personality psychology things like MBTI. There is a whole group of "NF's" which are basically your stereotypical hopeless romantics. Most of us are only really turned on when we are around people who are as sensitive as we are and that is perfectly acceptable.

You're not from the U.S. are you?

I had a Japanese gal that was to nice and it was had to be dominate she relaxed me too much ^_^

Hugs turn me on, n people thougt it was weird. But its true. I rarely get hugs so fuck them.

But anyways, yeah. This sounds normal. I have this curse where i fall for girls who are nice to me or give me the least bit of attention. Fall for turned on. Makes no difference!

I take it your a woman? If thats the case then I'd just like to say: You sound like the nicest person I've ever met(well read a question from) and I can tell by the way you wrote this question that you are one of the most beautiful women ever born.I wish there was a way for me to show my graditude for you and everything you do. I cant comment enough on how good a person you are. If I knew you I would treat you so nice that you would have your ankles pinned behind your head for days. I'm just sayin, I know how to treat a lady.

a;so women need to be treated right in order to get in the mood for sex either way. most guys think "treat em mean keep me keen". maybe at the start for a little bit but in the relationship id'e say "treat em nice, they'll cum thrice"

i guess it's a part of you at this moment in time that flicks those switches. id'e say it's normal. if not better than normal because you actually realize what turns you on the most. id'e feel well lucky if i met a girl knowing that being nice turns her on easily. :D

I am a very nice person :D though I don't show it to many :/.

Either way I also found out I am not so easily turned on. Mine is more.. Hardcore turn on. Its a little quirky thing that differs per person.

I get the gut feeling from this post that something big has happened in your life for you to feel this way.
What you feel CAN be explained if you look at your life hard enough.

you dont prefer hiding from your lover under the bed? strange

You're normal, however, I don't think that's the only thing turning you on. Many other factors play into the sexual attraction of another human being.

I'm the same. I definately don't get turned on by people being an ass to me anyways. Mostly if my bf is being a major dick and asks to have sex my drive is low so I say no. But if he was being nice to me that day, my drive is way up so i'll say yes. My libido's fairly normal though, but hugely represssed when he's being an arse. Maybe this is what your experiencing?

What the hell?!
No idea!