I don't think putting more negatively in the world helps any one. I've had a guy I knew I wasn't interested in try to buy me a drink and I say no thank you and then I get the oh you must be a lesbian crap. This only confirms what I initially thought and it makes it harder for the next guy. So lather rinse repeat 20 times in a night and pretty much no one has a chance. How is that helping any one?
IIN that some women are offended if a man thinks they are attractive
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I don't think putting more negatively in the world helps any one. I've had a guy I knew I wasn't interested in try to buy me a drink and I say no thank you and then I get the oh you must be a lesbian crap. This only confirms what I initially thought and it makes it harder for the next guy. So lather rinse repeat 20 times in a night and pretty much no one has a chance. How is that helping any one?