I am a little shy but thats not the problem. I can get a date and have movie and dinner paid for or get all the drinks I want at a club but I won't just use a guy I'm not interested in to get free stuff it isn't fair to the guy. Thats why I have criteria to weed out the ones that just wanna get laid. I only date ppl I would have a relationship with.
Are you happy with the ideology you selected? Its not to snug or to loose? Do you feel it pigeonholed me accurately? You should try seeing with your own eyes you might be surprised at what your current blinders keep you from seeing. Just a suggestion tho. If your current way of looking at things is working then keep it up.
Actually yes I am happy with my ideology. This is that men are over women and in charge of the relationship. Women have their own merits, talents and ways of thinking, which is not inherently bad but different than mens. I'm not perfect but so what I don't have to be...
Did I pigeonhole you accurately? I think so, most of my thinking of you is not posted on this site but kept to myself. I think you are smart and a free thinker who is able to hold their own. To be honest, I like you a lot, maybe too much.
See. You might be surprised if your open to understanding a person. I might seem hardened and cynical but thats not really the case. I'm supportive to my friends I hand out compliments generously but I've had to build certain walls around myself for my own safety and sanity. I learned a long time ago that no one is coming to save me so I better be my own best friend. This means its hard to really get close to me but for the right person I think I'm worth the effort becos I value me.
IIN that some women are offended if a man thinks they are attractive
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I am a little shy but thats not the problem. I can get a date and have movie and dinner paid for or get all the drinks I want at a club but I won't just use a guy I'm not interested in to get free stuff it isn't fair to the guy. Thats why I have criteria to weed out the ones that just wanna get laid. I only date ppl I would have a relationship with.
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I thought you were a Equal Rights kind of person.
You mean your'e an old fashioned girl?
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I'm a think for myself girl. I didn't go to the ideology store and pick my way of thinking about things off the shelf.
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I can just picture you rolling your eyes and doing that female neck thing while saying that....followed by a snap of the finger.
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Are you happy with the ideology you selected? Its not to snug or to loose? Do you feel it pigeonholed me accurately? You should try seeing with your own eyes you might be surprised at what your current blinders keep you from seeing. Just a suggestion tho. If your current way of looking at things is working then keep it up.
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Actually yes I am happy with my ideology. This is that men are over women and in charge of the relationship. Women have their own merits, talents and ways of thinking, which is not inherently bad but different than mens. I'm not perfect but so what I don't have to be...
Did I pigeonhole you accurately? I think so, most of my thinking of you is not posted on this site but kept to myself. I think you are smart and a free thinker who is able to hold their own. To be honest, I like you a lot, maybe too much.
Hey, that is awesome. I figured you for one that would play head games. I was wrong on that one! Nice job, it isn't fair to the guy at all.
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See. You might be surprised if your open to understanding a person. I might seem hardened and cynical but thats not really the case. I'm supportive to my friends I hand out compliments generously but I've had to build certain walls around myself for my own safety and sanity. I learned a long time ago that no one is coming to save me so I better be my own best friend. This means its hard to really get close to me but for the right person I think I'm worth the effort becos I value me.