I'm sorry but your advice is a bit silly. Can you imagine how awkward it would be for a guy, any guy, to walk around and out of the blue just say that to a random woman? Anyone, (man or woman) would probably not be expecting that sort of forwardness. And it probably wouldn't be met with an overall positive response. Sure there is a chance it could work, but it is a small one.
The first example you put forward is far more realistic. Maybe the guy was just making small talk conversation and if there was some connection he would than ask about if you are single, etc...Maybe he really was just in a talkative mood and was excited about going to Subway and was getting a sandwich for his significant other.
Also, most men and women I encounter rarely ask if I'm single or interested. They establish a connection and assume it's going somewhere, then become highly upset later when it isn't.
Becoming highly upset isn't appropriate, especially since it was their own fault for making an assumption.
In my experience most women (especially if they are happy in the relationship) make it a point to mention casually if they are not single. I ask pointed questions that lead into it being mentioned so minimal time is wasted.
IIN that some women are offended if a man thinks they are attractive
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I'm sorry but your advice is a bit silly. Can you imagine how awkward it would be for a guy, any guy, to walk around and out of the blue just say that to a random woman? Anyone, (man or woman) would probably not be expecting that sort of forwardness. And it probably wouldn't be met with an overall positive response. Sure there is a chance it could work, but it is a small one.
The first example you put forward is far more realistic. Maybe the guy was just making small talk conversation and if there was some connection he would than ask about if you are single, etc...Maybe he really was just in a talkative mood and was excited about going to Subway and was getting a sandwich for his significant other.
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It doesn't seem awkward to me.
Also, most men and women I encounter rarely ask if I'm single or interested. They establish a connection and assume it's going somewhere, then become highly upset later when it isn't.
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Becoming highly upset isn't appropriate, especially since it was their own fault for making an assumption.
In my experience most women (especially if they are happy in the relationship) make it a point to mention casually if they are not single. I ask pointed questions that lead into it being mentioned so minimal time is wasted.