I'm not gonna lie, how I respond depends. If the person seems polite and reasonably normal then I don't mind, but if the person is gross, creepy, slimy or appears to be leering at me then I see no reason to be nice. I'm not trying to encourage a person who makes me uncomfortable!
That's fair, I don't think anyone will have a problem with that.
I work with mostly women and its funny to see the ones who are stuck up. I speak to everyone if they seem friendly, so I won't even try to say good morning to you if you seem like you have an attitude etc. So basically I found that the average to below average females seem to open up to normal talk the easiest. People might think that the best looking females get hit on the most BUT THEY DON'T. Usually men are afraid to speak to super fine women and will speak to the just good looking ones first. People don't realize that most of the super fine women have major issues because on the one hand they have 'everything' men and women desire but too much of it, and it makes them anti-social and not able to easily interact with people on a social level. So the put off, the standoffish behavior from super fine and fine women might be just because they just don't know how to interact with people socially.
I am a little shy but thats not the problem. I can get a date and have movie and dinner paid for or get all the drinks I want at a club but I won't just use a guy I'm not interested in to get free stuff it isn't fair to the guy. Thats why I have criteria to weed out the ones that just wanna get laid. I only date ppl I would have a relationship with.
Are you happy with the ideology you selected? Its not to snug or to loose? Do you feel it pigeonholed me accurately? You should try seeing with your own eyes you might be surprised at what your current blinders keep you from seeing. Just a suggestion tho. If your current way of looking at things is working then keep it up.
See. You might be surprised if your open to understanding a person. I might seem hardened and cynical but thats not really the case. I'm supportive to my friends I hand out compliments generously but I've had to build certain walls around myself for my own safety and sanity. I learned a long time ago that no one is coming to save me so I better be my own best friend. This means its hard to really get close to me but for the right person I think I'm worth the effort becos I value me.
IIN that some women are offended if a man thinks they are attractive
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I'm not gonna lie, how I respond depends. If the person seems polite and reasonably normal then I don't mind, but if the person is gross, creepy, slimy or appears to be leering at me then I see no reason to be nice. I'm not trying to encourage a person who makes me uncomfortable!
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That's fair, I don't think anyone will have a problem with that.
I work with mostly women and its funny to see the ones who are stuck up. I speak to everyone if they seem friendly, so I won't even try to say good morning to you if you seem like you have an attitude etc. So basically I found that the average to below average females seem to open up to normal talk the easiest. People might think that the best looking females get hit on the most BUT THEY DON'T. Usually men are afraid to speak to super fine women and will speak to the just good looking ones first. People don't realize that most of the super fine women have major issues because on the one hand they have 'everything' men and women desire but too much of it, and it makes them anti-social and not able to easily interact with people on a social level. So the put off, the standoffish behavior from super fine and fine women might be just because they just don't know how to interact with people socially.
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I am a little shy but thats not the problem. I can get a date and have movie and dinner paid for or get all the drinks I want at a club but I won't just use a guy I'm not interested in to get free stuff it isn't fair to the guy. Thats why I have criteria to weed out the ones that just wanna get laid. I only date ppl I would have a relationship with.
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I thought you were a Equal Rights kind of person.
You mean your'e an old fashioned girl?
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I'm a think for myself girl. I didn't go to the ideology store and pick my way of thinking about things off the shelf.
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I can just picture you rolling your eyes and doing that female neck thing while saying that....followed by a snap of the finger.
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Are you happy with the ideology you selected? Its not to snug or to loose? Do you feel it pigeonholed me accurately? You should try seeing with your own eyes you might be surprised at what your current blinders keep you from seeing. Just a suggestion tho. If your current way of looking at things is working then keep it up.
Hey, that is awesome. I figured you for one that would play head games. I was wrong on that one! Nice job, it isn't fair to the guy at all.
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See. You might be surprised if your open to understanding a person. I might seem hardened and cynical but thats not really the case. I'm supportive to my friends I hand out compliments generously but I've had to build certain walls around myself for my own safety and sanity. I learned a long time ago that no one is coming to save me so I better be my own best friend. This means its hard to really get close to me but for the right person I think I'm worth the effort becos I value me.