Is it normal that shy men turn me on?

Introverted men or with anxiety turn me on. My man of dreams isn't someone tough, but someone who's vulnerable and can admit that. Is it normal?

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88% Normal
Based on 42 votes (37 yes)
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Comments ( 20 )
  • YourMomIsGae

    OMG sammme

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  • where were you when I was in high-school?

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  • WarriorGene

    Struggling to read with your bad writing, but ok. I disagree and history is quite clear on this. Weak and disbanded people get replaced by others. It always happens. It's your choice to like shy men, like the OP, and I voted normal on that. But you take it to a higher level now. The level of political matters and socio-cultural values. A weak society will soon collapse, making space for others to proliferate. It's easy to see this in a shitload of cases, from Mayans and Aztecs to Sweden and Germany right now. Go ahead, do your research. No hard feelings, just get informed.

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  • eeeekkk

    I agree. I just kinda like the almost mysterious nature that seems to come with them. In my opinion it makes them very interesting and intriguing they can really suprise you. I also find it very rewarding when they open up to you.

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  • Newenglander

    You are basically all us shy guys' dream girl, one who is turned on by those of us who are shy, vulnerable, but we know that your fantastic kind of girl is rare. If only we had more people like you in the world.

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  • Retsama

    So I can turn you on !

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    • Might be!

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      • Retsama

        So you can send me a message or write something on my page ! ;)

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  • SwickDinging

    It's a huge turn off for me if a grown man is shy and weak, I associate those qualities with children and people who haven't learnt vital social skills. I feel like I'm baby sitting them. But hey, variety is the spice of life - we don't all like the same things. If you're into it then go for it.

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    • I'm not saying weak men turn me on, just strong in a diffrent way. The kind that can show compassion and aren't ashamed to show their weaknesses to people that gained their trust. As eeeekkk said, getting to know them better is much more rewarding.

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  • karmasAbich

    I don't think that's normal.

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  • brutus

    Its alright.

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  • No. Human beings are biologically programmed to seek out a mate who is emotionally and physically strong. If women reproduce with men “who are vulnerable” then our species will be even more fucked up and weak than it already is.

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    • YourMomIsGae

      Your low-key that one guy that gets salty because he can't get a girl to like him...

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    • WarriorGene

      Good point, buddy!

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    • Indigo1

      Have fun fighting the lion by fist in the 23rd century, we'll all be in class exercising our brains so we can solve real problems.

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      • Yes, we will, and the “vulnerable” men will be crying in a corner because someone took their lunch money.

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        • Indigo1

          No muscle strong enough to get our lunch money anymore. Out with the meat-head fucktard bullies crying and killing over fire, on with the compassion,forgiveness, and fellowship of men and woman. The future looking back at these days like we are cave men. --"vulnerable" wouldn't be the best word to use, but based off this comment and other comments, i think i get the drift on at least the direction with how feel regarding weakness, and some of the ways you define it.

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  • LloydAsher

    Sadistic is the first word that comes to mind. Nothing wrong with it just saying.

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  • SeekNPlay

    Vulnerable? That’s questionable.. WHAT ARE YOUR INTENTS WOMEN?! on the flip side it’s normal

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