Is it normal that people are such shameless pedos?

I get hit on a lot but I also look very young despite being nearly 30. However, there are some people who try to pursue me and than try and hide it. Since they assume I am a minor. However, this is super fucked up if ya think about it. Since the solution is to just NOT ASK and proceed to pursue. Meaning they have in the past had sex with actual children. Wtf is wrong with people?

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  • Tommythecaty

    I’ve not seen one woman over 25 who I thought looked underage, not one. And given you are nearly 30 then they aren’t pedoish in the slightest are they you twat ass kookasaur 🥴

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    • RoseIsabella

      I can't really judge OP without looking at a picture. For most of my adult life I've steadily presented as looking 5 to 10 years younger than my actual age.

      I can't believe it, but now I am 51, and I don't know how I look, but most people don't think I'm in my fifties.

      Of course one thing about me that I have failed to mention thus far is that I rarely if ever go out in the sun, and compared to most people in a really sunny climate I do look younger.

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      • SwickDinging

        I'm the same. I live near the equator but I am very vigilant about avoiding direct sunlight. People say it's over the top but my skin looks fucking great.

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        • MonteMetcalfe

          I have a cousin who lives in southern Florida. I hadn't seen her in about 12 years. But when I saw her recently I couldn't help but think "How the fuck do you get wrinkles in the middle of your cheeks?" The woman looked like a sun dried tomato. I've seen mummies that looked more youthful.

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          • SwickDinging

            Yeah, you see a lot of that near me too.

            It's amazing what all that sun does to someone's skin. It's not even like it just ages you normally - it actually makes you look like a shriveled up prune.

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          • CDmale4fem

            Her facial cheeks or her ass cheeks ? Lol

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        • RoseIsabella

          Right on!

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      • Tommythecaty

        I can pretty much guess how old any person is within a couple years give or take. There’s certain natural ageing that takes place on all people. It’s hard to explain but I don’t have trouble telling people’s ages at all.

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        • RoseIsabella

          You just might be gifted in that area, but some people do look quite a bit younger, or older than there age.

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          • CDmale4fem

            I have people telling me quite often they think I am anywhere from 10-20 yrs younger than I am. So when they tell me that I put them at top of my xmas card list. Lol

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        • That is you specifically. That doesn't mean everyone has ur gift

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          • Tommythecaty

            Or it means a lot of people have non functioning eyes lol.

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    • No, since they legit have made these comments after or during pursuit of a relationship. Some people look younger for thier age. I stopped growing in middle school so I am the height of an average middle schooler. I don't find it suprising since I am small but the fact they think this and would still try is disgusting. I mean really could just ask than being a lurking troll pervert looking to smash kids. Also they do have certian people fake being minors to trap pedos, so looking young for ur age exists. Like cops have sent in young looking adults to catch pedos.

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  • S0UNDS_WEIRD

    You say they should just "not ask". It sounds more likely to me that they're just being sure. I saw this a lot as my sister both looked incredibly young and was regarded as most likely the prettiest woman around. Looking young is common in my family. Until my sister was 35 she was sometimes mistaken for 17 or so, and even at the point that she turned 35 she just looked like a 17-year-old randomly showing minor signs indicative of aging rather than as if she were in her 20s.

    Guys that crushed on her harder than simply casting a glance or two could tell she had an unusual look about her and felt the need to ask. I think that's better than not asking if they were unsure and I think it's safer to assume that guys who didn't ask either had some knowledge of who she was or had admired her long enough to tell rather than that they were sexual predators.

    I don't think it's fair to judge someone as a pedo for expressing interest in you in your 30s just because you might look young. I mean are these guys just whipping their dicks out and touching you with them? If they're normal advances they're fine. Perhaps you should be flattered even; many of the guys who eventually hit on my sister turned out to have been observing for a while (not in a creepy sense) and felt overjoyed at confirmation when they saw her buy a beer or something.

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    • RoseIsabella

      If someone just whips his dick out he's gonna meet up with my taser! 😊

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      • S0UNDS_WEIRD

        There are probably users here into that Rose!

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        • RoseIsabella

          Well, I sure as Hell wouldn't do anything for the purpose of some degenerate's enjoyment. I also have pepper spray.

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          • You know I've always wondered what it'd be like to cook with pepper spray. I like spicy food 🤷

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            • RoseIsabella

              Pepper spray is not for cooking, it's for spraying in the eyes of an attacker.

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    • No, that isn't why. Clearly if you date someone over 18 at over 18 you are not a pedo. Its the fact they actively say they need to hide stuff afterwards like. "Oh dont tell anyone or stay in the car ill get in trouble if they see me with a minor". Like wtf did you pursue what you thought was a minor?

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  • jethro

    I saw this girl at a family event, years ago. Here she comes, every bit of 6 feet tall and built like Jessica Rabbit. I made a comment to a friend, I was standing with, about how nicely constructed Jessica Rabbit was. My friend told me that Jessica Rabbit was only 13 years old. I about spit out my gum. Not knowing that up front I would have definitely hit on that one.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Well, it's certainly not her fault that she's so tall, and well built at such a young age. Hopefully if someone messes with her she can knock em on their ass. I'm glad you didn't hit on her, and that your friend told you she was still a child. I ain't mad at you, get yo self some new gum, and keep on trucking, but do remember that when you attracted to, and interested in a woman to always speak to her in a thoughtful, and respectful manner.

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  • NarutoUzumaki

    I don't know whether to say yes to the fact that there are some creeps out there or no to the fact that it isn't ok

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  • ellnell

    Unfortunately it is common.
    I had men in their 50s eyeing me when I was 14-15 wearing shorts in the summer and I look very young for my age, looking back at old pictures of myself showing them to people they think I was 8-10 years old on photos where i'm 15... So that doesn't make it much better.
    Men will be creeps. Often younger ones hide it better at least around here and old ones have absolutely 0 shame. Probably because they grew up in an even more sexist and shameless society.

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    • Cuntsiclestick

      Ugh. When I was 10 and my sister was 13, grown ass men were hitting on us. We'd tell them our ages, but that didn't deter them. They wouldn't say anything to us when we had a guy with us or our dog, Blackie. But when we were alone, they were creeps. They were such cowards. XD

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        People would hit on 10yos? How does that even happen? They saw you at the bus stop and started cat calling lol? I cant wrap my head around how you would even hit on a 10 yo. "Aye girl u lookij nice got some candy and some barnie movies in here"

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        • When I was like eleven I was with my aunt, uncle, and cousin at home Depot dressed in like a sweat outfit ensemble thing and this old guy called me sweety and gave me a provocative smile in the middle of conversation

          I didn't really understand it at the time but now I do. There's no way in hell he couldn't have known I hadn't even hit puberty

          Things like that happen. It's not even that they're trying to score, it's just projecting that energy onto someone vulnerable, someone underage, that gives them what they want. They'll just go home and think about that 5 minute interaction and it's absolutely disgraceful

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        • Cuntsiclestick

          My sister and I got hit on while walking or riding our bikes to school, to the library, and to the 7 Eleven plaza. A lot of these people's favourite line was "aye mami!" or they'd make kissing noises or try to offer us money. The real creepy ones would drive slowly next to us while we were walking. I don't know what the hell was wrong with those people.

          At some point, we just started taking our dog with us everywhere. No one said a dang thing to us with her around. The few that tried learned that she wouldn't hesitate to hurt anyone that we felt uncomfortable with. Made me feel invincible. XD

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          • 1WeirdGuy

            Holy shit dude thats crazy. I never experienced that. People would drive by and yell "FAGGOT!!!" when I was 10 lmao

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      • RoseIsabella

        It's disgusting, if looks could kill I'd probably strike blind, and kill a lot of disgusting, old creepers. To me such people are less than cockroaches.

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        • Cuntsiclestick

          I'm so glad my sister and I had our dog Blackie at the time. She really seemed to like keeping the creepers away.
          :)

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          • RoseIsabella

            Yes, I remember you talking about Blackie, what kinda dog was she again?

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            • Cuntsiclestick

              She was an Alaskan Husky. She looked like this:

              https://i.ibb.co/xGG1CLJ/100926-122536.jpg

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    • RoseIsabella

      Yeah, those older ones have always disgusting me. The thing I like best about being a middle aged woman is that a lot of people seem to be more respectful of me, and people in general don't fuck with me.

      It's so disgusting, and as been the bane of many a young woman's existence.

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  • Somenormie

    Well the problem here in the world is that there are people who solicit stuff to minors.

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    • RoseIsabella

      I think those people are disgusting pieces of subhuman shit! When I was about 20 a 43 year old man from work tried to kiss me, he was married and had kids. I still think that dude was a disgusting person for trying to bust a move on me. I'd rather be alone for the rest of my life than mess around with someone old enough to be my father. It's nasty, and gross.

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  • raisinbran

    Your behavior, clothing or speaking style probably gave away your age.

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    • I mean it should but apparently people are really stupid. Since the way I talk should but people still make these assumptions. In fact I could be given drinks and still given this assumption. Like really?

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  • olderdude-xx

    Well... when I was a teenager I had sex with other teenagers. So, its actually normal for people to when they were young (a child) to have sex with another young person (another child).

    The issue is that some people carry that well into adulthood. Not that they has sex with someone in that age group sometime in their past (which almost all of us have done).

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    • LloydAsher

      Also biology has a role in this. Females look their best on average from ages 17-19. While males work on a bell curve with being attractive mostly comes when they are in their 30s and 40s.

      This is mostly because attraction for females comes from their look of fertility vs men who aquire resources over time so older guys hold more resources than younger guys. Though general attractiveness still holds for men it's just less important than holdings.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I certainly wasn't attracted to older men in their 30s and 50s when I was in my teens. If anything I saw them as creepy if they were interested in me.

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        • LloydAsher

          Some people look for resources (not just material)

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          • RoseIsabella

            To this day I still wish I had the power to strike perverts blind.

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            • LloydAsher

              Depending on what criteria you determine to be perverted we may agree or disagree.

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  • 1WeirdGuy

    You are sounding paranoid to me. Its very likely others can tell you are 30 and you do not look as young as you think.

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    • No, literally what they said. I not assuming. I base on what they factually said.

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      • 1WeirdGuy

        The reason I said you sounded paranoid was your age and the fact that you said "this means they've had sex with children" thats a huge assumption. Also the guys that said you looked young probably ment young as in 18+ not as in child age. It would be very uncommon for even one guy to say you look like a CHILD and then hit on you let alone multiple guys. Thats just not something you share. Thats just saying "hey im into children"

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        • I mean you are making an assumption it would not happen becuase it hasn't been something you witnessed. You shouldn't discount anothers experience based on your narrow view. If someone trys to date you thinking you are a minor that means they planned on pursuing a child. That means they are attracted to kids. Though I would argue these idiots are also dumb for not paying attention to any other context clues aside from physical attributes.

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          • 1WeirdGuy

            I am making an assumption that they knew you were not a kid. Ive never seen a 30yo that looked like a child.

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  • Vinegar

    I know when I was 13 year old (going Christmas shopping with my parent) there were these two older men (30s or 40s) trying to hit on me thankfully my dad was close or else I don’t know how it would of ended. Unfortunately it wasn’t the only time when something like this was going to happen.

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  • idkyourmom27

    must be redditor, get z cups lmao XD dawg :3

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  • omdwh38

    You're obviously trolling.

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    • I wish I was.

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