Is it normal that only the girls i don't like like me?

This hasn't always been the rule, I dated some girls who I really liked both physically and mentally, but lately this has become more difficult for me. Usually only girls that I don't find attractive like me, and those that I like don't even notice my existence. I'm a guy, just to clarify. is it normal villagers, is this normal?

Is It Normal?
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  • This is so normal for straight and gay. People are grouped in hierarchies based on looks and status and everyone is punching above their weight or aiming for someone out of their league. Sometimes you might just get lucky and find someone who’s out of your league but doesn’t have much confidence in themselves so they don’t realise they are too good for you. If you have shit loads of money or power or both then women will cling to you like flies to shit and what league they’re in becomes irrelevant. It’s all very shallow and sad but that’s life.

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    • I agree with you, it's okay I'm not offended at all. Honestly I think that's the problem. I don't have low self-esteem, I really like myself, but I've acknowledged that I'm not the most attractive guy in town, I'm skinny, and my face is quite okay except for my nose I think. I'd say I'm quite average. I know that hierarchies vary depending on where you live, if you live in LA, average is kind of supermodel for the rest of the world. Where I live, average isn't much, and I like pretty girls, but I only seem to attract average or ugly girls. I'm not an asshole for saying this, because it's all subjective, this is all my opinion. I'll have to improve my physical appearance to level up. Thanks for sharing.

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      • Be very careful because you’re sounding a bit like an entitled and embittered incel. I think it’s just that the very beautiful ones, whatever that even means because it’s all subjective anyway, get men hitting on them left right and centre. They get to take their pick. Of course the “average” and the “ugly” are going to be easier to pick up because they probably don’t get many options. End of the day I should tell you that good looks do not equal good sex. In fact sometimes the best looking ones are dud fucks because they are too up themselves and so they make selfish lovers. I honestly cannot stand very good looking men. Their arrogance and cockiness nauseates me. They think they’re gods gift most of the time. There is no way I could ever trust one to stay faithful. Great eye candy but too high maintenance. In today’s world of internet and social media it seems like looks are everything but when it comes down to it it’s more about confidence. Confidence is what attracts people to you like magnetism because most people are insecure. So if you can walk into a room looking open, confident, smiling etc you will be approachable and get closer to what you want. People can read you. I’m pretty average looking but I’m confident and when I go out I get a lot of attention. I don’t want that attention most of the time but it’s flattering anyway. Try not even judging people on their appearance and just becoming interested in what they have to say and offer. Better yet, instead of going out with an aim of getting something from someone, what can you give? Most people just want to get something so if you are there just to have a good time and give out instead of taking you will come across very attractive. Sometimes the most physically unattractive people can become extraordinarily sexy once you get a glimpse below the surface.

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        • Thanks for such great advice! You should really be a marriage counselor or a psychiatrist, haha. I'll put it into practice, you're right, looks are not everything, presence, vibe and overall attitude towards people are also very important factors to take into consideration when finding someone attractive or not. I was totally overlooking that, thanks again for opening my eyes a little more.

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  • Of course it is, the guys I like either dont show interest or are taken or something, but the guys I'm not interested in are like supppppp girl wana go out? Can I go In you apartment? Can I comb your hair? Wana see my thong? Etc and it's like dude we havent even known each other a month!

    Maybe I'll learn how to approach men eventually and start getting the guys I like. Hopefully a nice african man mmmm

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    • Well I almost married a guy. Are you sure the ones you can't get is because they are not into DICK, Something that would be nice to know first thing :)

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      • I'm a transwoman not a guy. Breasts and everything. My dick doesnt even work haha. I let guys know silly. I'm not stupid.

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  • Ive never actually been with someone who i was really attracted to.

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