Is it normal that my wife wants me to always wear a condom even though she uses

I understand that a condom kills most of the feel of intercourse but I would like to inform you that every woman have a right to deny sex without a condom or deny sex at all.
There are many people specially ladies who don't feel safe without a condom. Your act of ripping out yours during sex was offensive and you must not do it again.
She is your wife and you should respect her wishes.

Sounds like she has caught something she does not want to pass on

Fuck that. Here's what you do:

Turn the lights out before sex, pull out a ramen flavor packet and pretend it's a condom, then pretend that you put it on. Slide in completely raw.

You're welcome.

Well maybe she needs to make sure if you are baby daddy or her boyfriend is. That is if and when she gets pregnant l.

I personally am convinced that your wife is a cheating whore who has contracted some sort of STD and now she is scared that she will pass it on to you, seeing as she knows that you are a honourable man who will stray and eat off the menu so to speak!

just like...take it off halfway through. shell never go back xD

Instead of ignoring her wishes I would have a sit down with her and really get to the root of why she is so scared. It may be that she is truly terrified of getting pregnant; which is normal btw. Have you ever talked about maybe getting a different type of birth control that makes her feel more secure. An iud might be a good idea or a diaphragm. The important thing is to not disregard her feelings on the matter just because you're mad she won't have sex with you in the way you want.

Dude, why she marry you then? If it is STDs then just clean yourself up, done. Two maybe she doesn't but pretends to take the pills.

I thought about that and asked her we argued and I got a test to prove I hadn't any stds.
But now I'm thinking maybe she thinks she might because maybe she has been playing away.
She won't talk about it .Last week we were having aggressive sex and I managed to pretend I slipped out and ripped the condom off and finished inside her , when she realised she went crazy.

Only normal if she believes you've been playing away and she needs to protect herself against STI's. Alternatively, maybe she just doesn't like the messiness of sperm.

What does she say when you ask her the reason she insists on this?