Is it normal that my wife is a lesbian

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We got married after dating for 4 months and she quit her job. She once told me while dating that she likes women. I thought she was telling me something that I wanted to hear to turn me on and I said that’s great. She reminded me about her liking women about 2 months into our marriage. She started seeing a woman while I was at work, sometimes her still at my house while I came home. Now much of her woman’s things are in our bedroom and bathroom, plus her woman sleeps in our other bedroom frequently. I guess it’s convenient for when I leave for work. I haven’t said anything to my wife so that I don’t upset her. She did tell me that she liked women but I thought she was kidding.

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Based on 35 votes (12 yes)
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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago | pl

    How do you feel about all of this? I can't help but to feel you are being used and taken advantage of for your money.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    5 years ago

    I'm confused on why you even got married.

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  • Nickvey
    5 years ago

    if you had a dad you could ask him what to do

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    • [Old Memory]
      5 years ago

      How come you always have brilliant comments?

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Well if you are happy with the arrangement that's great. You may find you are in the second bedroom soon and will only serve them as a wallet.

    Learn to listen. People usually do what they say.

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    • those3simplewords
      5 years ago

      I don't advocate polygamy

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    If you are not happy with such degeneracy, eliminate it.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    5 years ago

    Bi-sexual.

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  • Annie25
    5 years ago

    Damn it.
    Talk to you wife ross
    Talk to her on a slightly serious note
    Yeah we get it she is her friend n all but staying in your house so frequently that annoying

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    You are one stupid fuck wit. She told you long ago she was into women, but typical man let’s his dick rule his brain so thinks it’s all about him and having sex. You should have listened first, then discussed whether she was serious about getting with a man. You have both been irresponsible, her for marrying a man when she already admitted to being gay, and you for not listening and taking her seriously when she first told you.

    However, you now have a predicament which you need to resolve. It seems quite clear that this is not going to be a little love nest for the 3 of you. You probably think it will be because you have a dick to think with. As a woman I don’t have this disability, so I get to use my brain for thinking. It is actually possible for men to overcome their infliction of having to think with their dicks, but apparently few ever achieve it. However, I will point out for you what is obvious to those of us that think with our brains.

    At present you are going into a situation where you are doomed to live as a lodger in your own home. If you are in rented accommodation then get the fuck out, stop contributing to the rent, and file for divorce. If you own the property that is more complex and a lot depends on the laws in whatever country you live. However, as there seems to be no children involved that will simplify things. But basically you need to employ a solicitor, and set things in motion for selling up, getting divorced and moving on with your life.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      She’s my wife so I have a commitment to her. I’m having to work more since she quit her job and her woman quit her job and moved in.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        No you don’t have a commitment to her, not any more. Once she became unfaithful to you your commitment ended. Think of it another way, if she had a little fling with another man instead of another woman would you be happy to move into the spare room while she shared your bed with him. Furthermore would you be happy to work longer hours because your wife and her new boyfriend both decided to quit their jobs and let you keep them both. That is effectively what has happened it’s just that her new boyfriend happens to be female but in every other way it’s the same thing.

        If you think under these circumstances you have any commitment to her whatsoever, then you are either a troll or an even bigger fucking idiot than you first appeared.

        If you are for real, I recommend you go and buy yourself a little maids outfit, and some sexy little panties to wear around the house while you are doing all the housework and the cooking etc for the 3 of you when you finish work and on your days off. If you are for real I would bet my last pound that that is what they will have you doing in the future. You will probably be forced into a chastity cage as well, apparently sissy maids are more obedient when they are kept in chastity and just allowed a prostrate milking every couple of months or so.

        So now you have a little insight into the future are you still feeling committed to her?

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        • Checkmate_King
          5 years ago

          You might wish to start wearing a 3-inch diameter black rubber buttplug so you'll get used to the cuck experience that you're going through. Or you can show some balls, throw the wenches out, change the locks and make them take you to court. F them You're the MAN. BALL UP DUDE.

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            Nah! He's no more a man than I am

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          I have been doing more around the house because they haven’t been doing it. My wife says that she gets stressed and asked if I could do things.

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            You know the old saying gently gently catch the monkey. Shes drawing you in. Best get that razor ready to shave your legs and check out your dress size. X😁

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              5 years ago

              If they don’t do get things done, I feel like I need to. She leaves me notes when they are gone.

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  • farkelu
    5 years ago

    You're weak and deserve to be sleeping in the second bedroom.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    She may want you to get her pregnant, and then collect child support for 18 years. Or, she may be happy with spending your money, without children. Is there really anything in this relationship for you?

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  • athem
    5 years ago

    Are you happy with the arrangement? Did she ask if you were fine with her being in a relationship with someone else before they started dating? If so, it's normal. If not, then itisn't.
    Also she may be bisexual, if you're both still in a happy relationship as well, rather than a lesbian.

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    You've given no indication of how you feel about this and it seems you didn't take your wife seriously when she told you about her sexual attraction to women.

    If everyone is ok with the situation then in my view there's nothing wrong with it, but I do wonder she married a bloke if she's a lesbian

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I came home yesterday and all of my things were moved into the 2nd bedroom and her woman’s things were moved into the master bedroom with her. She said that her woman brought more things to our house and there was enough room in the master bedroom for her things if my things were moved in the 2nd since my things fit in the 2nd. So I’m sleeping in the 2nd to respect her wishes.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I didn’t take her seriously enough I suppose. She’s my wife so I have to respect her wishes and support her.

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Why? How is that a thing? What if she cheats on you with a guy? Do you still have to respect and support her wishes? I can't understand this respect thing. That only works when you are comfortable with those wishes, which you seem not to be.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Seems like a perfect "opportunity". Take advantage of it!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Opportunity for?

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        A threesome!

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        • Ellenna
          5 years ago | pl

          Most lesbians are not at all interested in threesomes with males, they're interested in each other, that's why they're lesbians

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          • those3simplewords
            5 years ago

            Finally someone who has fuking brain cells

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            • Ellenna
              5 years ago

              Why thank you!

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        • Uniquegirl54
          5 years ago

          Your always horny😜😂

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        • those3simplewords
          5 years ago

          don't be a slag

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          Maybe but they don’t seem to want me involved.

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            You don't need approval if you don't ask for permission in the first place.

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          • [Old Memory]
            5 years ago

            That's a bummer!

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            • those3simplewords
              5 years ago

              no its a great thing

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