Is it normal that my wife has a gf

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My wife is 58 and she works mostly nights as an RN. She and I were talking and she brought up that how normal it is for wives to be bixsexual. She talked me into letting her at least experience it. I discovered later than she'd been having a relationship with her 31-year old female coworker. Since, she spends more time with her gf. I think she asked me to justify her wanting more time with her.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago | pl

    she cheated on you

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    • RoseIsabella
      6 years ago

      That's what I think. I don't think it's normal for wives, or husbands for that matter to be bisexual. I don't hate or dislike people who are bisexual, but I don't being bisexual is what marriage is about.

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      • CreamPuffs
        6 years ago

        Being bisexual doesn't mean you're entitled to 2 mates, it means you are attracted to both sexes.

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        • LuxM4G
          6 years ago

          Word.

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          Oh I know what it means to be bisexual, it's not the feelings that are wrong per se, but rather the infidelity and acting on said feelings while married.

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          • CreamPuffs
            6 years ago

            That is very true. Adultery is always wrong, I can't disagree with that.

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    She's trying to to justify her shitty actions. However, it doesn't matter if she is with a man or a woman, she's still a disgusting cheater. You don't have to put up with her bullshit!

    Don't be afraid to hire yourself a good lawyer! Working part-time is one thing, and there are many reasons why one partner might choose to work part-time, but her working part-time so she can spend more time with her bitch is completely inexcusable. You shouldn't have to work harder to support a two-timing whore!

    You shouldn't have to lift a finger to do anything that would benefit that awful relationship of theirs. Seriously, I hope you divorce her, and hire a good lawyer so that she gets nothing!

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    • edreams
      6 years ago

      it is not cheating she asked him and he let her do it.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      I'm in love with my wife. She told me that she's not leaving me and that she needs me.

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        Are you happy?

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          6 years ago

          I guess that I could be happier. She may decide to come home full time. I'll give her time.

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          • RoseIsabella
            6 years ago

            Well, I certainly hope she appreciates you.

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            • Anonymous Post Author
              6 years ago

              She appreciates me. She said that she needs enough time with her gf to make us work. Her young gf is single so it's tough competing.

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  • Akua_Ray
    6 years ago

    Just because she's a female and with another female doesn't mean its right. It's still cheating in whole. And that's something I've never understood about Bisexuality. Bisexuality is when you're attracted by both genders but also aren't sure about which sex you like the most.

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  • Dustyair
    6 years ago

    What is it with nurses, we've had two married into our family, both cheaters, one passed herpes on to my family member. WTF?

    I'd tell her to hit the road, and stay away from nurses.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    She cheated on you, simple as that. Divorce her and never look back.

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  • Akua_Ray
    6 years ago

    She's your wife and you should really sit down and talk to her about it. You're the man of the relationship and set the record straight. Be firm

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  • yolomonkey
    6 years ago

    Gender aside, she cheated on you

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  • McBean
    6 years ago

    It's only fair that your wife shares with you. That means threesomes. If she doesn't want to share divorce her. Or get a job with 100% travel and fuck whores.

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  • LuxM4G
    6 years ago

    Ask her if her girlfriend would be keen on having an open minded relationship between the three on you, that way she could move in to your house and you'd get to get laid with a much younger woman, assuming she's bisexual too and not married also.

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  • BeautifulDreamer612
    6 years ago

    It's normal if you are in an open marriage.
    If she can have a girlfriend, then you can have a girlfriend or boyfriend too.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago

      She and her gf were working full time and now only work part time. I'm having to work more to support us.

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      • BeautifulDreamer612
        6 years ago

        She should work full time too

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        • RoseIsabella
          6 years ago

          Yeah, I think she should work harder. If I were a married man I sure as Hell wouldn't bust my ass working hard so my wife can enjoy spending more time with her lesbian lover.

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          • BeautifulDreamer612
            6 years ago

            Exactly!

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      • RoseIsabella
        6 years ago

        How does that make you feel?

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