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my son walks around the house in a shirt and thong (womens). he is not gay, he has a girl friend, it doesnt bother her because he wears them when she's over. i asked him why he wears them and he told me they were comfortable. is this something i should worry about or should i just let him wear them and not worry about it?
I wouldn't worry about it one little bit. Your son is a sexual being and likes to enjoy it a little more outwardly perhaps, than others. If I were you, however, I might encourage him to just walk around nude, if he likes. I'm sure he would want to, if he had your blessing. By allowing him this freedom, you would be fostering more trust and respect between the two of you than a lot of other kids share with their parents.
Also, while his girlfriend is at your house, maybe you should allow her the same privilege. You've got to know that when your
son walks around in panties, it's just a prelude to masturbation -- a way to excite himself to the erection stage. When he does it in the company of his girlfriend, it's the beginning of sexual contact between them, in whatever form they are presently enjoying.
If you've ever been to a nudist club, you'd see all manner of people in the buff enjoying themselves in otherwise normal circumstances, doing normal activities -- the only difference being is that they are naked. Many teen guys and girls can be seen sharing a number of active games, athletic pursuits, etc., none which involve anything close to being sexual. They just enjoy the freedom -- much as your son does in his panties -- to be unclothed.
I just noticed that I didn't really finish my thoughts on this subject. My point is, is that if you foster open nudity in your household, it will become less of a sexual thing, and more one of lifestyle than anything else. In that way, you wouldn't be worried that too much might be going on between the two of them, or that others might think your son is a little wierd, which he is not.
Well if already walks around the house in thongs...you cant really stop him now because he probably already thinks you have allowed him...if you do tell him to stop...he will just keep on doing it anyway (if he likes it that much that is)
To all the people who think it's wrong, hear this: it's just a piece of clothing for goodness' sake. Let him wear what he wants. Omg, women wear it too? Like, oh noes!
She probly wears his underwear too. If it dosnt bother you too much then leave him to it. But you dont like walking into the kitchin to find your son in a thong. Then it's pefectly understandable too not want him to wear them.
you should make him wear a diaper and suck on a pacifier. that'll teach him