He's a very private man. As his mother says, "With Paul, everything is 'classified'". He has spoken to me previously about seeing hookers before we started dating and I'm not stupid; it's hard to change habits, even if you get married. I guess it all depends on how you define "great relationship". Does he make me happy? Very. Do I adore him? Yes. Is our relationship perfect? Obviously not. Some men's pet peeve is when their girlfriend/wife says, "We need to talk about the relationship." It is said that you can talk/analyse a relationship to death. I think that talking is good if it is possible to accomplish something positive (i.e. get something off your chest) or solve a problem through the process of discussion. Otherwise, it's either a waste of time or destructive.
IIN that my husband visits prostitutes when he's away on business?
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He's a very private man. As his mother says, "With Paul, everything is 'classified'". He has spoken to me previously about seeing hookers before we started dating and I'm not stupid; it's hard to change habits, even if you get married. I guess it all depends on how you define "great relationship". Does he make me happy? Very. Do I adore him? Yes. Is our relationship perfect? Obviously not. Some men's pet peeve is when their girlfriend/wife says, "We need to talk about the relationship." It is said that you can talk/analyse a relationship to death. I think that talking is good if it is possible to accomplish something positive (i.e. get something off your chest) or solve a problem through the process of discussion. Otherwise, it's either a waste of time or destructive.