Well if you're okay with it maybe hint at him that you're okay with it. It'll probably strengthen the marriage seeing as he doesn't have to hide it or feel guilty, making him more open and stuff :)
He's a very private man. As his mother says, "With Paul, everything is 'classified'". He has spoken to me previously about seeing hookers before we started dating and I'm not stupid; it's hard to change habits, even if you get married. I guess it all depends on how you define "great relationship". Does he make me happy? Very. Do I adore him? Yes. Is our relationship perfect? Obviously not. Some men's pet peeve is when their girlfriend/wife says, "We need to talk about the relationship." It is said that you can talk/analyse a relationship to death. I think that talking is good if it is possible to accomplish something positive (i.e. get something off your chest) or solve a problem through the process of discussion. Otherwise, it's either a waste of time or destructive.
IIN that my husband visits prostitutes when he's away on business?
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I'm OK with it.
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Well if you're okay with it maybe hint at him that you're okay with it. It'll probably strengthen the marriage seeing as he doesn't have to hide it or feel guilty, making him more open and stuff :)
Are you sure? If you have such a great relationship it seems like he should have talked to you about this before it happened, or perhaps soon after.
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He's a very private man. As his mother says, "With Paul, everything is 'classified'". He has spoken to me previously about seeing hookers before we started dating and I'm not stupid; it's hard to change habits, even if you get married. I guess it all depends on how you define "great relationship". Does he make me happy? Very. Do I adore him? Yes. Is our relationship perfect? Obviously not. Some men's pet peeve is when their girlfriend/wife says, "We need to talk about the relationship." It is said that you can talk/analyse a relationship to death. I think that talking is good if it is possible to accomplish something positive (i.e. get something off your chest) or solve a problem through the process of discussion. Otherwise, it's either a waste of time or destructive.