I know this an old post but I google this topic. I've been married 3 months. I had suspicions of the same thing. Come to find out...I'm right. I'm sick. It's a something we must look at everyday. With every look, we know. I love my ring but now I think, no, I love her ring. She never received it but she picked out rings she liked and he took those designs and & designed the mount and band. He picked the diamond out for me because it never had one till he decided to propose to me. It makes me insane to know this. I'm 39 and feel so selfish but I also feel like I deserve my own damn ring! Not the ring she picked! I'm so hurt and confused. He is honestly the sweetest person I know but this is just wrong to me. He makes plenty of money so he could've bought or been sweet enough to design me a damn ring!
IIN that my husband gave me his ex's engagement ring for the proposal?
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I know this an old post but I google this topic. I've been married 3 months. I had suspicions of the same thing. Come to find out...I'm right. I'm sick. It's a something we must look at everyday. With every look, we know. I love my ring but now I think, no, I love her ring. She never received it but she picked out rings she liked and he took those designs and & designed the mount and band. He picked the diamond out for me because it never had one till he decided to propose to me. It makes me insane to know this. I'm 39 and feel so selfish but I also feel like I deserve my own damn ring! Not the ring she picked! I'm so hurt and confused. He is honestly the sweetest person I know but this is just wrong to me. He makes plenty of money so he could've bought or been sweet enough to design me a damn ring!