So, she's your cousin, right? That gives you a lot of leeway in terms of stuff you can say to her without fear of negative consequences. To find out, you make a comment, jokingly. Something like: [well, I'm sure you can think of something wickedly witty to say here]. She'll either laugh it off, call you a perv and say "behave", then continue as if nothing happened, or say, "Thank you. You like?". What would you like to happen? Tell her it's a turn-on for you, and see how she reacts.
Also, hair dressers talk all the time about all sorts of topics from the mundane to the risque, and must be among the most flirtatious people I know. But this means that they could be acting in a way that is a total turn-on for one person, but normal for them. As mentioned above, it is not uncommon to have non-sexual boob-contact with a hairdresser.
IIN that my haidresser keeps stroking me when she cuts my hair
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So, she's your cousin, right? That gives you a lot of leeway in terms of stuff you can say to her without fear of negative consequences. To find out, you make a comment, jokingly. Something like: [well, I'm sure you can think of something wickedly witty to say here]. She'll either laugh it off, call you a perv and say "behave", then continue as if nothing happened, or say, "Thank you. You like?". What would you like to happen? Tell her it's a turn-on for you, and see how she reacts.
Also, hair dressers talk all the time about all sorts of topics from the mundane to the risque, and must be among the most flirtatious people I know. But this means that they could be acting in a way that is a total turn-on for one person, but normal for them. As mentioned above, it is not uncommon to have non-sexual boob-contact with a hairdresser.