Is it normal that my girlfriend pushes for sex then says i pushed her for it?

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At the beginning of our relationship she would always start to make things sexual, whether through text or in person. She would be extremely flirty, but now that we are a lot further in she will consistently say (almost daily basis) that I kept pushing her to have sex. So is it normal for someone who would randomly text "I wish you were inside me" to turn around and say stuff like "you pushed me to have sex and do things I didn't completely want to do" or "just gently encourage until you get what you want, that's what you did with me"

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  • Fall_leaves
    7 years ago | pl

    If she doesn't want to then she should tell you and not make you feel guilty when you initiate sex. It's kind of screwed up that she's making it out to seem like you're forcing her to be intimate. That's a redflag.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    7 years ago | pl

    Ouch.

    Maybe the next time she opens her mouth you pop your dick in there.

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    She sounds very confused about her sexuality, which I would imagine is having a negative effect on your desire for her.

    If I were you I'd step right back sexually, don't initiate anything and wait until she approaches you sexually, then point out that she's making the moves, not you.

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  • riffraffy
    7 years ago | pl

    Girls lack accountability. This isn't a red flag and there's nothing especially wrong with her—she just doesn't want to come across as slutty, and will revise history if she has to.

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    • CreamPuffs
      7 years ago | pl

      Maybe she needs to cut it out. It's kind of a bitchy thing to do you know.

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago | pl

    Talk to her about it and if that doesn't work I say break up with her. Most people deserve better then that.

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  • MontyClift
    7 years ago | pl

    This is unhealthy, and it sounds like she is uncertain about what she wants sexually, and you're being victimized.

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  • gatekeeper007
    7 years ago | pl

    The older I get ,& the more I learn, I think that women don't really value men in the same way as a man values his Girl.Of course the girls have to be so careful because so many men are just ultra -controlling assholes.

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