Is it normal that my girlfriend is super jealous

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At my local pizza shop there is a girl who works as a cashier every time we go there (a couple times a week) she always greets me by name, we don't have any personal conversation only talk about the order and payment of food. But my gf often gives her death stairs and often tells me that she hates that bitch and want to grab her by the hair, slap her and tell her to stay away from me. I think this is very over the top. So what I want to know is.
Is it normal for my gf to be jealous ofthe pizza girl cashier

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  • RoseIsabella
    7 years ago

    Your girlfriend sounds like a future ex girlfriend. I would run from a guy like your girlfriend. I'm not tryin to hate on her hater ass, but all I'm sayin is I'm sayin.

    BEWARE.

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  • Cookiecutter
    7 years ago

    She has serious issues so be careful if you ever talk to a girl thats not her. Next step is paranoia and stalking dump her while you she is boat full of crazy.

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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Jealousy is a huge red flag. If you were a woman describing her jealous man, everyone would be telling you to leave, but because you're a guy, almost everyone is up in the air about it.

    My advice, run. Jealousy is not some cute little quirk you have to get use to because she's a woman. No. It'll only going to get worse from here. You'll notice you can't hang out or even have female friends, and when you do its a hassle in some way; then it'll escalate to arguments and such or worse. She's going to drive you crazy.

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  • arthurtheaardvark99
    7 years ago

    how your girlfriend is acting might be a bit extreme but would you prefer if she didn't care at all when she knew other girls were flirting with you? think about what you have and feel fortunate.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      But there has been no flirting except in her head and that sort of delusion shouldn't be encouraged.

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  • Disappointmentaf
    7 years ago

    Maybe she just pretends to get this jealous lol we do it. I'm dramatic AF if I girl hits on my guy I act very jealous and tease him a lot. Is it like that?

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago

    She has serious self-esteem issues and no, that behavior is definitely not normal. Is it only this one girl she's being so crazy about, or is it a general thing?

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  • Faith32
    7 years ago

    She's not crazy

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  • paulthepoes
    7 years ago

    Your Girlfriend is bad news, it will not improve with time it will only get worse!

    She has inadequacy issues and see`s everybody as a threat to her relationship with you.

    The cheapest and easiest route to follow is to get rid of her!

    But be careful, she really sounds like the a vengeful Bitch and might even offer you "goodbye sex" so that she can get up close to your family jewels and snip them off!

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  • Anggi
    7 years ago

    Im letting him to have a girl friends, he has many girl friends from work from home or from other area, even now he stay with a girl in 1 apartment im okay with that cause i know they were just friends, sometimes i get jealous with a girl who wasnt his friends, and i had a reason why tho

    This pizza girl show us that she likes my bf so much, cmon if u r a girl u will know it, when we finished our food this bitch say thank u of course to all customer there but when me and my bf came to this restaurant she said thank u to my bf only, she did it manytimes if she meant it (say thank u just because my bf was a customer) she will say it to both of us right?

    We went to many restaurants and only here i got something like that, im not saying anything rude to her i just gave her a death eyes, i love him so much u guys may say that what ive done its too much but u should know that i was really proud to say he's mine, and u could ask him by urself is he feel like i am to protective about this relationship? Ill give u chance to cut my ear if he say yes, thank u

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  • yourmindisfuckedup
    7 years ago

    Stop eating pizza!

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  • felixy
    7 years ago

    It's a confirmation that you're a high value guy. Jealousy is the surest sign that she'll stay committed to you, and she's likely to make an extra effort to be a great girlfriend.

    So long as she doesn't do anything crazy, this is very normal and a good sign.

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Oh here you are again with all that "high value guy" bullshit. Her jealousy is about HER, not him and sounds pathological and not at all normal.

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      • felixy
        7 years ago

        It's actually about both of them, but since OP is the guy I only gave him advice.

        Let's talk value. If you need me to find another word then let me know, but it's the sum of a person's appearance, their prospects, charisma, wealth etc. The measures are different for men and women, and I never said it was fair.

        Maybe the actual value gap between him and her isn't that great. It's obviously the perceived gap inside her head that leads to this jealousy. It may blow your mind but some insecurity on the girl is actually healthy and (believe or not) attractive to guys. But too much is toxic.

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        • Ellenna
          7 years ago

          No let's NOT talk "value", it's a rubbish concept in relation to human beings, maybe applicable to a car or a house but not to a person

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  • honeybuns33
    7 years ago

    Jealousy is a huge red flag. If you were a woman describing her jealous man, everyone would be telling you to leave, but because you're a guy, almost everyone is up in the air about it.

    My advice, run. Jealousy is not some cute little quirk you have to get use to because she's a woman. No. It'll only going to get worse from here. You'll notice you can't hang out or even have female friends, and when you do its a hassle in some way; then it'll escalate to arguments and such or worse. She's going to drive you crazy.

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