I agree that emotions are not logical, and therefore no one (not even me) can say what is fact and what is not, when it comes to love.
But your example is not ideal, since its not the outsider (you) that can make or break a relationship between two other people. It is only the people within the relationship that can do that. ie If you asked my partner (hypothetically speaking of course) for a sleepover, although a tad rude, it is up to my partner to accept or decline, and only then does the trust/mistrust begin from the partner NOT you.
In saying that, with a little more wisdom you probably could eventually provide a more in line example that may stump me. I suppose in that case, most if not all relationships between 2 people should never fear others, if they are honestly in love.
'Jealousy is a curse'. What this means is that if you (generally anyone) is jealous, that is NOT the other partners fault. Think of jealousy as a sickness within the person who is jealous only. Your faithful partner does not need to prove themselves or make any change whatsoever to a jealous spouse. The jealous person themselves should try to control this illness to not allow it to manifest to their partner (or publicly) ever.
They can never cure jealousy as it is a 'curse' ;)
By the way, I've just responded to your reply, I haven't even re-read this topic, I hope it was still relevant to topic? But thanks for replying to my reply made 2 years ago :D
IIN That my girlfriend invites other guys over for sleep overs?
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I agree that emotions are not logical, and therefore no one (not even me) can say what is fact and what is not, when it comes to love.
But your example is not ideal, since its not the outsider (you) that can make or break a relationship between two other people. It is only the people within the relationship that can do that. ie If you asked my partner (hypothetically speaking of course) for a sleepover, although a tad rude, it is up to my partner to accept or decline, and only then does the trust/mistrust begin from the partner NOT you.
In saying that, with a little more wisdom you probably could eventually provide a more in line example that may stump me. I suppose in that case, most if not all relationships between 2 people should never fear others, if they are honestly in love.
'Jealousy is a curse'. What this means is that if you (generally anyone) is jealous, that is NOT the other partners fault. Think of jealousy as a sickness within the person who is jealous only. Your faithful partner does not need to prove themselves or make any change whatsoever to a jealous spouse. The jealous person themselves should try to control this illness to not allow it to manifest to their partner (or publicly) ever.
They can never cure jealousy as it is a 'curse' ;)
By the way, I've just responded to your reply, I haven't even re-read this topic, I hope it was still relevant to topic? But thanks for replying to my reply made 2 years ago :D