Is it normal that my ex texted me this after four years?
Hi everybody,
I'm not going to get into much detail about our relationship together but I'm just curious about something. Me and this girl were best friends. She was the love of my life once, untill she screwed me over (again, not much detail, and no she didnt cheat, but broke my heart though on some same type of level. what she did was just as bad, lets just say that).
Anyway, out of anger we gone our seperate ways. I found a great girl that I recently moved in with (we rent a house together in the city) and we're both living a pretty normal life, I guess.
Though the ex I was talking about (Lets call her Lisa), suddenly send me a very long message on Facebook explaining that whatever she once did to me, was wrong, she was in a bad place, and that she now found a new girl as well, and she's very happy with her, she's finally stable enough to realize what she did to me and the effect it had on me as well. Basically it's a huge ass long apology for whatever happened and she's saying that whatever happens, I'll always be a very big important part of her life. (We've always had a very close relationship even if we weren't talking. She isn't like any of my other exes).
Though she claimed 4 years ago when she broke up with me, she didn't love me anymore, but still cares, I feel somewhat confused.
The question is,
What do I answer? Do I answer?