Is it normal that my dad wants to control me and gets angry if i didn't listen
My dad gets angry over little and big things , he likes to control me , he used to tell me to change my clothes or put something on ,when i wore a sleevless shirt (even though i used to be over 24 when he used to say that ) if the plastic bags from the grocery store are thrown away or not ,he gets angry , if his things that he put on the stairs are moved to another place ,he gets angry , and sometimes he interfers with my stuff and my life ,even when i was no longer a teenager , just a couple of years ago , i was in my mid twentess, there was spaggati for lunch , it was me and him , there was shreded cheese ,so i didn't put shreded cheese on the spaggiti , he told me to put , i told him that i don't want to , then he got really angry and started cussing , i was in my mid twenties (i am still living with my parents ) , then a couple of days ago , he was angry over soemthing , so mom and him ate lunch , i didn't see that there was left over luch from yesterday that he had taken from the fridge , so i ate noodles , because i felt like it and didn't see the leftover , he then (because he was previously mad ) started interfering with me , and telling me there is no protein in what i am eating and there is left over food and stuff . is it normal that he interferes with my life ,even though i am over college and school age ?! , and is it normal for him to get angry for not eating what he wants me to eat ?.