Honestly I really like and get along with both of these people (I don’t talk to the guy anymore though, we were just friendly acquaintances), it was just childish drama and some boundary issues playing out behind the scenes.
My female friend just enjoys “getting around” a lot. Like a lot.😆 Her “social rules” are different from most, but she’s a very nice and open-minded person, which why I’m still friends with her. I believe this is fine, I just REALLY wish she was less impulsive and had more common sense.🤦♀️
The guy was always very nice to me and most people, and I could tell he held himself to very high standards, which I respect. He also had anger issues and nearly got into physical fights with some of my coworkers. He overworked himself practically to DEATH, and he looked exhausted almost every time I saw him. Clearly some mental health problems happening there…
Anyways, my female friend wanted to hook up with him (she was single and he was in an open relationship), and apparently some drama played out behind the scenes. Trust was broken somewhere (apparently the guy showed my friend’s nudes to his girlfriend without asking permission, which my friend didn’t appreciate…), which resulted in my friend completely losing interest in him. There was probably more to it as well (like his temper tantrums, though those were only directed towards certain people), but one nude sharing incident seemed enough reason to convince her she could do the same with me. Ummm, it’s not EXACTLY the same situation, seeing as I was just a platonic female coworker to this guy…but yeah…this is why workplace drama sucks…🤦♀️
IIN that my coworker tried to show me a pic of my other coworker’s dick?
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Honestly I really like and get along with both of these people (I don’t talk to the guy anymore though, we were just friendly acquaintances), it was just childish drama and some boundary issues playing out behind the scenes.
My female friend just enjoys “getting around” a lot. Like a lot.😆 Her “social rules” are different from most, but she’s a very nice and open-minded person, which why I’m still friends with her. I believe this is fine, I just REALLY wish she was less impulsive and had more common sense.🤦♀️
The guy was always very nice to me and most people, and I could tell he held himself to very high standards, which I respect. He also had anger issues and nearly got into physical fights with some of my coworkers. He overworked himself practically to DEATH, and he looked exhausted almost every time I saw him. Clearly some mental health problems happening there…
Anyways, my female friend wanted to hook up with him (she was single and he was in an open relationship), and apparently some drama played out behind the scenes. Trust was broken somewhere (apparently the guy showed my friend’s nudes to his girlfriend without asking permission, which my friend didn’t appreciate…), which resulted in my friend completely losing interest in him. There was probably more to it as well (like his temper tantrums, though those were only directed towards certain people), but one nude sharing incident seemed enough reason to convince her she could do the same with me. Ummm, it’s not EXACTLY the same situation, seeing as I was just a platonic female coworker to this guy…but yeah…this is why workplace drama sucks…🤦♀️
I hope the above makes sense.😕