Is it normal that my boyfriend wants to make me heavy?

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He is the best boyfriend i ever had and we've been together since 5 years. Past three years though, he made several attempts to make me put on weight.(Unfortunately they were quite successful) For instance, I stopped doing sports for him and he made me addicted to chocolate (I eat mor than 2 large chocolate bars a day). 2012 i had 130lbs (59kg), now I'm at my highest weight which is about 250lbs (113kg). I don't mind my weight that much but I'm worried about my health. So... is it normal?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Get back into the sports you love, girl! Twenty pounds doesn't sound like that much weight, but if you're consistently inactive not only will you gain weight, but your muscles will atrophy and turn to fat. There's a good chance that if you stay with this stupid controlling guy that the twenty pounds you gained will turn into thirty, fifty or even one hundred pounds.

    You don't need to stay with someone who tries to change you. Besides if you love sports, and this guy claims to love you, then you shouldn't have to give up sports for his selfish ass! Dump him... I'm dead serious, girl.
    :^)

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  • nikkiclaire
    6 years ago

    It's not clear to me how he makes you do these things. Sis he forbid sports? Does he force you to eat? Two chocolate bars a day won't make you gain 120lbs and almost double your weight.

    It's certainly extremely unhealthy being obese which is what you've become. Stop blaming your boyfriend and take control and responsibility of your health.

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  • _ItsScience
    6 years ago

    He's making attempts to change you into who he wants you to be. When he ought to love you as you are (or rather were).
    Don't let him do that or ditch him, because that's not at all healthy.

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    have you lost your mind? its not that he wants you so much as he wants no one else to want you. i dont know who is crazier , you or him.

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  • Youngvictoria
    6 years ago

    Some guys are into bigger girls have you asked him if that's his thing? Or is it more of a way to control you to keep you to himself? If it's tbe former then alright don't let yourself be unhealthy. 250lb is unhealthy. There should be a happy medium somewhere below that. If he's just controlling you then leave him now.

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  • bimbobamboo
    6 years ago

    he wants to make ur boobs bigger

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